Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 Am scos extrasele unul c\u00e2te unul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La \u00eenceput voiam doar s\u0103 v\u0103d c\u00e2t pl\u0103tisem eu dup\u0103 separare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 merg \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lun\u0103 dup\u0103 lun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
An dup\u0103 an.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Transferuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Avansul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Banii primi\u021bi de la p\u0103rin\u021bii mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perioadele \u00een care fostul meu so\u021b \u00eemi spusese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cCompens\u0103m luna viitoare.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i lunile \u00een care acea compensare nu venise niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021b\u0103 aveam masa acoperit\u0103 de documente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Atunci am luat o decizie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 el voia s\u0103 transforme apartamentul \u00eentr-o lupt\u0103, nu aveam s\u0103 intru \u00een ea nepreg\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am luat avocat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prima \u00eent\u00e2lnire m-a speriat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu pentru c\u0103 mi-ar fi spus c\u0103 nu aveam nicio \u0219ans\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ci pentru c\u0103, pentru prima dat\u0103, cineva mi-a explicat c\u00e2t putea dura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2t putea costa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i c\u00e2t de important era s\u0103 nu mai fac nimic doar pentru a sc\u0103pa mai repede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I-am dus tot ce p\u0103strasem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Extrase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dovezi de plat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Documentele creditului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Actele privind avansul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mesajele dintre mine \u0219i fostul meu so\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Inclusiv cele \u00een care recuno\u0219tea c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2rziase cu partea lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Avocatul a r\u0103sfoit documentele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cLe-a\u021bi p\u0103strat pe toate?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAproape.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cFoarte bine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 luni \u00eentregi am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu mai eram femeia c\u0103reia toat\u0103 lumea \u00eei spunea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cLas\u0103 de la tine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eram femeia care putea demonstra ce f\u0103cuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fostul meu so\u021b a aflat repede c\u0103 nu aveam de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 cedez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cChiar vrei s\u0103 ajungem \u00een instan\u021b\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cEu \u021bi-am propus s\u0103 rezolv\u0103m la notar.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218i s\u0103-mi dai c\u00e2t vrei tu?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u021ai-am propus evaluare \u0219i plata p\u0103r\u021bii care \u021bi se cuvine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu accept.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAtunci vom l\u0103sa lucrurile s\u0103 fie stabilite oficial.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cTe bagi singur\u0103 \u00eentr-o gaur\u0103 de bani.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPoate.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218i pentru ce?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am uitat \u00een jurul apartamentului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPentru c\u0103 este mai ieftin dec\u00e2t s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc toat\u0103 via\u021ba pentru faptul c\u0103 m-am l\u0103sat speriat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A \u00eenchis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi au \u00eenceput ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mama lui m\u0103 suna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu r\u0103spundeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cemi trimitea mesaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cVrei s\u0103-l distrugi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cVrei s\u0103-i iei tot.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu \u021bi-e ru\u0219ine?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La un moment dat mi-a scris:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cEl \u0219i-a ref\u0103cut via\u021ba. F\u0103 \u0219i tu la fel.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am uitat mult la mesaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Era aproape comic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tocmai faptul c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ref\u0103cuse deja via\u021ba demonstra c\u00e2t de fals\u0103 fusese povestea c\u0103 eu \u00eel l\u0103sam f\u0103r\u0103 acoperi\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mama mea \u00eencerca \u0219i ea s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu mai dormi bine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMunce\u0219ti dou\u0103 servicii.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMerit\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu \u0219tiu \u00eenc\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAtunci de ce continui?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 nu mai era doar despre apartament.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Era despre faptul c\u0103 to\u021bi \u00eemi ceruser\u0103 mie s\u0103 absorb consecin\u021bele deciziilor lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
El \u00een\u0219elase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
El plecase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
El refuzase \u00een\u021belegerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
El \u00ee\u0219i construise deja o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i tot eu trebuia s\u0103 renun\u021b pentru ca lucrurile s\u0103 fie simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 cedez acum, mam\u0103, o s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb tot restul vie\u021bii dac\u0103 am f\u0103cut-o pentru lini\u0219te sau pentru c\u0103 m-a\u021bi convins cu to\u021bii c\u0103 munca mea valoreaz\u0103 mai pu\u021bin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mama a t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Procesul n-a fost spectaculos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A fost obositor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00e2rtii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Termene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Calcule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evalu\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mul\u021bi bani pe care a\u0219 fi preferat s\u0103-i folosesc pentru orice altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fostul meu so\u021b continua s\u0103 sus\u021bin\u0103 c\u0103 eu \u00eel l\u0103sasem f\u0103r\u0103 locuin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La un moment dat a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAm fost dat afar\u0103 din propria cas\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L-am privit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu te-am dat afar\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAm fost obligat s\u0103 plec.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu. Ai plecat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi avocatul meu a pus pe mas\u0103 informa\u021biile despre locuin\u021ba \u00een care st\u0103tea deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu mai era b\u0103rbatul f\u0103r\u0103 acoperi\u0219 pe care \u00eel descrisese mama lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Locuia cu femeia pentru care m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i g\u0103sise bani pentru via\u021ba aceea \u00een timp ce \u00eent\u00e2rzia cu obliga\u021biile legate de apartamentul nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Expresia lui s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru prima dat\u0103 nu mai controla povestea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar nici atunci n-am sim\u021bit satisfac\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Voiam doar s\u0103 se termine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lunile au trecut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu continuam s\u0103 lucrez ziua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seara deschideam din nou laptopul pentru al doilea job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Au existat seri \u00een care m\u0103 uitam la soldul contului \u0219i \u00eemi venea s\u0103 sun avocatul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cS-a terminat. Accept orice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o astfel de sear\u0103 chiar am format num\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am oprit \u00eenainte s\u0103 sun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am dus \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am f\u0103cut o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i am v\u0103zut pe mas\u0103 unul dintre extrasele pe care uitasem s\u0103-l pun \u00een dosar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O rat\u0103 pl\u0103tit\u0103 integral de mine cu ani \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am amintit luna aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fostul meu so\u021b \u00ee\u0219i cump\u0103rase un telefon nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu am\u00e2nasem controlul la dentist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Atunci am pus telefonul jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu aveam s\u0103 renun\u021b doar pentru c\u0103 devenise greu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen cele din urm\u0103 a venit \u0219i ziua \u00een care am primit decizia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apartamentul urma s\u0103-mi fie atribuit mie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trebuia s\u0103-i pl\u0103tesc fostului meu so\u021b suma stabilit\u0103 pentru partea care \u00eei revenea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu c\u00e2\u0219tigasem casa gratis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu-i luasem lui \u201ctotul\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu exista niciun miracol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trebuia s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i urma s\u0103 mai muncesc mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar apartamentul r\u0103m\u00e2nea la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am citit documentul de trei ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi m-am a\u0219ezat pe canapea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen aceea\u0219i sufragerie din care toat\u0103 lumea \u00eemi spusese c\u0103 ar fi mai simplu s\u0103 plec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i am pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu de fericire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai degrab\u0103 de oboseal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2teva zile mai t\u00e2rziu, mama a venit la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A stat la mas\u0103 \u0219i s-a uitat \u00een jur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDeci r\u0103m\u00e2ne al t\u0103u.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218i trebuie s\u0103-i pl\u0103te\u0219ti partea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A dat \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPoate ai f\u0103cut bine c\u0103 nu ai cedat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu eram furioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar nici nu puteam s\u0103 m\u0103 prefac c\u0103 uitasem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cA\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103-mi spui asta de la \u00eenceput.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mama \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMi-a fost fric\u0103 pentru tine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cVoiam s\u0103 ai lini\u0219te.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u0218tiu \u0219i asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDar lini\u0219tea pe care mi-o propunea\u021bi to\u021bi costa exact c\u00e2t partea mea din via\u021ba pe care o construisem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cu fostul meu so\u021b am mai vorbit doar \u201cLas\u0103-i lui apartamentul. Tu e\u0219ti femeie, te descurci\u201d, mi-a spus chiar mama mea dup\u0103 ce so\u021bul care m\u0103 \u00een\u0219elase a cerut casa pentru care EU pl\u0103tisem ani \u00eentregi. Am refuzat \u0219i mi-am luat al doilea job ca s\u0103 \u021bin singur\u0103 rata. Apoi am aflat unde locuia el, de fapt, \u00een timp ce \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 eu \u00eel las \u201cpe drumuri\u201d.c\u00e2t a fost necesar pentru a \u00eencheia lucrurile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mama lui n-a mai intrat niciodat\u0103 \u00een apartamentul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Al doilea job l-am p\u0103strat \u00eenc\u0103 o perioad\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aveam bani de recuperat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Datorii de pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i o via\u021b\u0103 de rea\u0219ezat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o sear\u0103 am ajuns acas\u0103 t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am l\u0103sat geanta \u00een hol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am aprins lumina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 foarte mult timp nu m-am uitat la apartament ca la obiectul unui proces.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am v\u0103zut din nou casa mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu pentru c\u0103 un judec\u0103tor \u00eemi f\u0103cuse un cadou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu pentru c\u0103 fostul meu so\u021b pierduse tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ci pentru c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea \u00eemi spusese c\u0103 ar fi mai simplu s\u0103 plec, eu alesesem s\u0103 nu confund lini\u0219tea cu renun\u021barea.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 Am scos extrasele unul c\u00e2te unul. La \u00eenceput voiam doar s\u0103 v\u0103d c\u00e2t pl\u0103tisem eu dup\u0103 separare. Apoi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 merg \u00eenapoi. Lun\u0103 dup\u0103 lun\u0103. An dup\u0103 an. Rate. Transferuri. Avansul. Banii primi\u021bi de la p\u0103rin\u021bii mei. Perioadele \u00een care fostul meu so\u021b \u00eemi spusese: \u201cCompens\u0103m luna … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7721"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7721\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7722,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7721\/revisions\/7722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}