Aurelian Temi\u0219an \u0219i Monica Davidescu formeaz\u0103 de mul\u021bi ani unul dintre cele mai cunoscute cupluri din lumea artistic\u0103 rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. Dincolo de apari\u021biile pe scen\u0103 \u0219i proiectele profesionale, cei doi au \u00eencercat s\u0103 p\u0103streze via\u021ba de familie \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 c\u00e2t mai echilibrat\u0103, iar fiica lor, Dora, a crescut \u00een mare parte departe de expunerea public\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajuns\u0103 la adolescen\u021b\u0103, Dora are propriile opinii, dorin\u021be \u0219i obiective, iar p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103i spun c\u0103 rela\u021bia cu ea s-a schimbat odat\u0103 cu trecerea anilor. \u00cen locul unei educa\u021bii bazate exclusiv pe reguli \u0219i interdic\u021bii, Aurelian Temi\u0219an \u0219i Monica Davidescu au ales s\u0103 \u00eei ofere libertatea de a lua decizii \u0219i de a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba inclusiv din experien\u021bele mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dora a crescut \u0219i este implicat\u0103 \u00een propriile decizii<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La momentul interviului acordat revistei VIVA!, Dora intrase \u00een clasa a VIII-a \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i concentra aten\u021bia asupra \u0219colii \u0219i a Evalu\u0103rii Na\u021bionale. Monica Davidescu povestea c\u0103 fiica sa \u00ee\u0219i luase foarte \u00een serios responsabilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i dorea s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 un rezultat care s\u0103 \u00eei permit\u0103 s\u0103 intre la liceul ales de ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adolescen\u021ba a adus \u00eens\u0103 \u0219i o schimbare \u00een rela\u021bia dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copil. Monica Davidescu explica faptul c\u0103, de\u0219i Dora r\u0103m\u00e2ne copilul lor, ea este tratat\u0103 tot mai mult ca un adult. P\u0103rin\u021bii \u00eei cer opinia \u0219i \u021bin cont de punctul s\u0103u de vedere atunci c\u00e2nd iau anumite decizii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai mult, aceast\u0103 abordare este dorit\u0103 chiar de Dora, care, potrivit lui Aurelian Temi\u0219an, vrea s\u0103 fie tratat\u0103 \u00een concordan\u021b\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta \u0219i maturitatea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ce principiu \u00eencearc\u0103 Aurelian Temi\u0219an s\u0103 \u00eei transmit\u0103 fiicei sale<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Artistul nu consider\u0103 c\u0103 un p\u0103rinte \u00ee\u0219i poate feri copilul de orice alegere gre\u0219it\u0103. Din contr\u0103, experien\u021bele personale pot deveni lec\u021bii importante, cu condi\u021bia ca adolescentul s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 consecin\u021bele propriilor decizii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mesajul pe care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 i-l transmit\u0103 Dorei este s\u0103 fie atent\u0103 la oamenii \u0219i situa\u021biile din jurul s\u0103u, s\u0103 analizeze ceea ce i se ofer\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 aleag\u0103 lucrurile pe care le consider\u0103 potrivite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen privin\u021ba gre\u0219elilor, Aurelian Temi\u0219an accept\u0103 ideea c\u0103 acestea fac parte din procesul de maturizare. Pentru el exist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 dou\u0103 limite importante: o gre\u0219eal\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 devin\u0103 o lec\u021bie, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu fie repetat\u0103, \u0219i nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie una cu urm\u0103ri imposibil de \u00eendreptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aurelian Temi\u0219an \u0219i Monica Davidescu nu se consider\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bi severi<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cei doi arti\u0219ti spun c\u0103 nu au ales modelul autoritar de educa\u021bie pe care multe genera\u021bii l-au \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00een trecut. Prefer\u0103 dialogul \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei ofere Dorei spa\u021biu pentru a-\u0219i forma propria personalitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 diferen\u021bele dintre genera\u021bii au disp\u0103rut complet. Aurelian Temi\u0219an recunoa\u0219te, cu umor, c\u0103 uneori ajunge \u0219i el s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 celebra compara\u021bie cu \u201epe vremea mea\u201d, expresie pe care adolescen\u021bii o primesc probabil la fel cum o f\u0103ceau \u0219i genera\u021biile p\u0103rin\u021bilor lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru Monica Davidescu \u0219i Aurelian Temi\u0219an, important pare s\u0103 fie echilibrul dintre libertate \u0219i responsabilitate. Dora este \u00eencurajat\u0103 s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 singur\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exprime punctul de vedere \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 propriile alegeri, dar \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 fiecare decizie poate avea consecin\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen acest fel, cei doi \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 fie nu doar p\u0103rin\u021bii care stabilesc limite, ci \u0219i oamenii la care fiica lor poate apela atunci c\u00e2nd are nevoie de un sfat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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