{"id":7031,"date":"2026-09-19T05:34:14","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T05:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=7031"},"modified":"2026-09-19T05:34:15","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T05:34:15","slug":"dupa-15-ani-de-casnicie-sotul-meu-mi-a-spus-ca-iubeste-pe-alta-si-ca-vrea-sa-plece-apoi-s-a-uitat-la-mine-mama-celor-doi-copii-ai-lui-si-mi-a-explicat-de-ce-destramarea-familiei-noastre-e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=7031","title":{"rendered":"\u201eDup\u0103 15 ani de c\u0103snicie, so\u021bul meu mi-a spus c\u0103 iube\u0219te pe alta \u0219i c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 plece. Apoi s-a uitat la mine, mama celor doi copii ai lui, \u0219i mi-a explicat de ce destr\u0103marea familiei noastre era \u0219i vina mea.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 \u201eTati, de ce pui hainele \u00een geamantan?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin s-a uitat la Vlad \u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103, calmul lui s-a fisurat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTata o s\u0103 stea \u00een alt\u0103 parte o perioad\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDe ce?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePentru c\u0103\u2026 mami \u0219i tati au ni\u0219te probleme.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103-mi urc\u0103 s\u00e2ngele \u00een cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eIrina\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu-i spune c\u0103 avem noi ni\u0219te probleme de parc\u0103 am hot\u0103r\u00e2t am\u00e2ndoi asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vlad ne privea speriat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTata a hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 parte. Dar tu \u0219i Daria nu a\u021bi f\u0103cut nimic gre\u0219it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin \u0219i-a \u00eencle\u0219tat maxilarul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N-a spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A doua zi a plecat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i abia atunci am descoperit c\u0103 nu-mi l\u0103sase doar dou\u0103 camere goale \u00een dulap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cemi l\u0103sase aproape toate cheltuielile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rata apartamentului, \u00eentre\u021binerea, m\u00e2ncarea, gr\u0103dini\u021ba Dariei, ochelarii lui Vlad, medicamentele, hainele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd i-am spus c\u0103 banii trimi\u0219i nu ajung, r\u0103spunsul lui a venit imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218i eu am cheltuieli acum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAi doi copii, Sorin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu am spus c\u0103 nu dau. Dar trebuie s\u0103 fii \u0219i tu realist\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Realist\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucram \u00eentr-o farmacie \u0219i salariul meu nu fusese niciodat\u0103 g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 singur casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 num\u0103r fiecare leu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am renun\u021bat la orice era pentru mine. Am cerut ture suplimentare. Seara f\u0103ceam contabilitatea simpl\u0103 pentru magazinul unei prietene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u00eentr-o zi Vlad a venit cu ochelarii rup\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen aceea\u0219i s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 trebuia pl\u0103tit\u0103 \u0219i gr\u0103dini\u021ba Dariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L-am sunat pe Sorin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAm nevoie s\u0103 pui partea ta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eLuna asta nu pot.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDe ce?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi am aflat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El \u0219i Bianca \u00eenchiriaser\u0103 un apartament nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen seara aceea mi-am scos verigheta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu ca gest simbolic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am v\u00e2ndut-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu banii am f\u0103cut ochelarii copilului \u0219i am acoperit ce mai lipsea pentru luna aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd Sorin a aflat, s-a sup\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru verighet\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 \u00eei spusesem mamei lui de ce o v\u00e2ndusem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTrebuia s\u0103 m\u0103 faci de r\u00e2s?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am r\u0103mas cu telefonul la ureche.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTu ai plecat la alt\u0103 femeie, ai l\u0103sat doi copii cu cheltuielile \u00een bra\u021bele mele \u0219i eu te fac de r\u00e2s pentru c\u0103 spun adev\u0103rul?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu simplifica lucrurile.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin \u00eenc\u0103 voia s\u0103 controleze povestea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voia s\u0103 fie b\u0103rbatul care \u201e\u00ee\u0219i ref\u0103cuse via\u021ba\u201d, nu tat\u0103l care l\u0103sase \u00een urm\u0103 facturile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a c\u0103 am \u00eencetat s\u0103 m\u0103 mai cert cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 p\u0103strez tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Transferuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cheltuieli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mesaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce pl\u0103team eu \u0219i ce pl\u0103tea el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu ca s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zbun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 nu mai puteam cre\u0219te doi copii pe promisiuni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au urmat luni grele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i Sorin nu s-a f\u0103cut mai u\u0219or.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd i-am cerut s\u0103 stabilim clar contribu\u021bia pentru copii, mi-a spus c\u0103 \u201e\u00eel tratez ca pe un bancomat\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd a aflat c\u0103 lucrez mai multe ore, a sugerat c\u0103 atunci \u201e\u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 descurc\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd Vlad a refuzat \u00eentr-un weekend s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la el \u0219i la Bianca, Sorin m-a acuzat c\u0103 \u00eentorc copilul \u00eempotriva lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asta a fost limita mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu mai pune pe mine consecin\u021bele alegerilor tale.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru prima dat\u0103, nu i-am mai explicat nimic dup\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Via\u021ba mea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se a\u0219eze \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu frumos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu u\u0219or.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar pe picioarele mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, soneria a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am deschis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin st\u0103tea \u00een fa\u021ba u\u0219ii cu o geant\u0103 de voiaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aceea\u0219i geant\u0103 cu care plecase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePutem vorbi?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u0219tiut \u00eenainte s\u0103-mi spun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu Bianca nu mai mergea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAm f\u0103cut ni\u0219te gre\u0219eli\u201d, a \u00eenceput. \u201eCred c\u0103 ne-am gr\u0103bit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit ceva ciudat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu bucurie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu satisfac\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai degrab\u0103 team\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 o parte din mine \u00eel iubise cincisprezece ani, iar omul din fa\u021ba mea \u0219tia exact unde s\u0103 apese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCopiii au nevoie de ambii p\u0103rin\u021bi\u201d, a continuat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00cei au.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218tii ce vreau s\u0103 spun.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218tiam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voia \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu venise spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 ce f\u0103cuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Venise spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u201ene-am gr\u0103bit\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Noi, din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218i tu ai partea ta de vin\u0103\u201d, a ad\u0103ugat. \u201eDac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 repar\u0103m ceva, trebuie s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem am\u00e2ndoi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am \u0219tiut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A clipit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEu am f\u0103cut gre\u0219eli \u00een c\u0103snicia noastr\u0103. Sigur c\u0103 am f\u0103cut. Dar nu eu am ales o alt\u0103 femeie. Nu eu am plecat. Nu eu am l\u0103sat copiii cu facturile \u0219i apoi am spus c\u0103 sunt tratat ca un bancomat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eIrina, nu po\u021bi s\u0103-mi sco\u021bi asta \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u021ba.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNici nu inten\u021bionez.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am uitat la geanta lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePentru c\u0103 nu te \u00eentorci aici.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eSerios? Dup\u0103 cincisprezece ani?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTocmai pentru c\u0103 au fost cincisprezece ani.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu l-am ur\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate asta m-a surprins cel mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nici nu mai eram femeia care \u021binea polonicul \u00een aer \u0219i asculta cum un b\u0103rbat care o tr\u0103dase \u00eei explica de ce era \u0219i vina ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorin a r\u0103mas tat\u0103l copiilor mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A trebuit s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 func\u021bion\u0103m a\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alteori foarte prost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu s-a mai \u00eentors ca so\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar eu n-am devenit brusc fericit\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 griji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au r\u0103mas ratele. Turele lungi. Copiii. Oboseala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numai c\u0103 a disp\u0103rut ceva mult mai greu dec\u00e2t toate astea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vinov\u0103\u021bia pe care \u00eencercase s-o lase cu mine c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a luat geamantanul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru prima dat\u0103 am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 po\u021bi recunoa\u0219te gre\u0219elile unei c\u0103snicii f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 accep\u021bi responsabilitatea pentru tr\u0103darea celuilalt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i uneori omul care se \u00eentoarce nu se \u00eentoarce pentru c\u0103 a \u00een\u021beles ce \u021bi-a f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se \u00eentoarce doar pentru c\u0103 locul \u00een care a plecat nu mai este at\u00e2t de confortabil cum credea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Post navigation<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 \u201eTati, de ce pui hainele \u00een geamantan?\u201d Sorin s-a uitat la Vlad \u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103, calmul lui s-a fisurat. \u201eTata o s\u0103 stea \u00een alt\u0103 parte o perioad\u0103.\u201d \u201eDe ce?\u201d \u201ePentru c\u0103\u2026 mami \u0219i tati au ni\u0219te probleme.\u201d Am sim\u021bit c\u0103-mi urc\u0103 s\u00e2ngele \u00een cap. \u201eNu.\u201d Sorin &#8230; <a title=\"\u201eDup\u0103 15 ani de c\u0103snicie, so\u021bul meu mi-a spus c\u0103 iube\u0219te pe alta \u0219i c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 plece. 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