{"id":7029,"date":"2026-09-19T05:32:17","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T05:32:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=7029"},"modified":"2026-09-19T05:32:17","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T05:32:17","slug":"domnule-colonel-in-casa-mea-nu-va-dau-raportul-socrul-meu-se-mutase-la-noi-pentru-doua-trei-luni-dar-dupa-cateva-saptamani-ajunsese-sa-hotarasca-la-ce-ora-se-tre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=7029","title":{"rendered":"\u201eDomnule colonel, \u00een casa mea nu v\u0103 dau raportul.\u201d Socrul meu se mutase la noi \u201epentru dou\u0103-trei luni\u201d, dar dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni ajunsese s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 la ce or\u0103 se trezesc copiii, ce m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u0219i chiar ce am voie s\u0103 cump\u0103r."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 Radu nu mi-a r\u0103spuns imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i tocmai t\u0103cerea lui mi-a dat r\u0103spunsul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTu i-ai spus tat\u0103lui t\u0103u c\u0103 lucrurile au sc\u0103pat de sub control \u00een casa noastr\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu \u00een sensul \u0103sta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie a pufnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eBa exact \u00een sensul \u0103sta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu s-a \u00eentors spre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTat\u0103\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe? Acum trebuie s\u0103 mint?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am uitat la so\u021bul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe i-ai spus?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tras aer \u00een piept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eC\u0103 suntem obosi\u021bi. C\u0103 tu e\u0219ti mereu pe fug\u0103, c\u0103 cei mici nu ascult\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna \u0219i c\u0103 eu nu mai reu\u0219esc s\u0103 \u021bin pasul cu toate.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218i solu\u021bia ta a fost s\u0103-l aduci pe tat\u0103l t\u0103u s\u0103 m\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00een ordine?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAtunci ce?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAm crezut c\u0103 ne ajut\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a ridicat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218i v\u0103 ajut. Numai c\u0103 doamna nu suport\u0103 s\u0103-i spun\u0103 cineva adev\u0103rul.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A ar\u0103tat spre hol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCopiii las\u0103 lucrurile peste tot. Se m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 la ore diferite. Se cump\u0103r\u0103 prostii. Fiecare face ce vrea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am uitat la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218i totu\u0219i, \u00eenainte s\u0103 veni\u021bi dumneavoastr\u0103, eram o familie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eO familie f\u0103r\u0103 disciplin\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTat\u0103, ajunge\u201d, a spus Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a \u00eentors spre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu. Tu m-ai chemat. Tu mi-ai spus c\u0103 nu mai faci fa\u021b\u0103. Acum, pentru c\u0103 s-a sup\u0103rat nevast\u0103-ta, te prefaci c\u0103 eu am venit aici s\u0103 v\u0103 stric via\u021ba?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asta era problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie nu credea c\u0103 f\u0103cuse ceva gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Credea c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i \u00eendeplinea rolul pentru care propriul lui fiu \u00eel chemase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 furia mea se mut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu mai era \u00eendreptat\u0103 doar spre socrul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eC\u00e2t trebuia s\u0103 stea?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu s-a uitat la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eMi-ai spus dou\u0103-trei luni. C\u00e2t i-ai spus lui?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eP\u00e2n\u0103 termin casa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAsta \u0219tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu, nu \u0219tii. Lucr\u0103rile nici n-au \u00eenceput.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eentors capul spre Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCum adic\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am aflat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Firma cu care trebuia s\u0103 lucreze Ilie am\u00e2nase renovarea. Constructorul putea \u00eencepe abia peste aproape patru luni, iar lucrarea urma s\u0103 mai dureze \u00eenc\u0103 trei sau patru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu \u0219tia de dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu-mi spusese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDeci nu vorbim despre dou\u0103-trei luni.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eIrina\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eVorbim despre \u0219apte? Opt?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eN-am \u0219tiut cum s\u0103-\u021bi spun.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 era amuzant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDar ai \u0219tiut s\u0103-i spui lui c\u0103 avem nevoie s\u0103 ne pun\u0103 casa \u00een ordine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen seara aceea nu s-a rezolvat nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dimpotriv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie a refuzat s\u0103-i dea Mariei tableta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDac\u0103 voi vre\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 cre\u0219te\u021bi copiii f\u0103r\u0103 reguli, face\u021bi cum vre\u021bi dup\u0103 ce plec eu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am dus \u00een camera lui, am luat tableta de pe dulap \u0219i i-am dat-o fiicei mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a uitat la Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDac\u0103 accep\u021bi asta, s\u0103 nu-mi mai ceri vreodat\u0103 ajutorul.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu n-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A doua diminea\u021b\u0103, la 5:45, Ilie era \u00een picioare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La \u0219ase \u0219i zece a trezit-o pe Maria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eRidicarea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fata a venit la mine \u00een dormitor pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 discu\u021bia din seara precedent\u0103 nu schimbase nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie nu renun\u021base.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u0219i ap\u0103ra pozi\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar Radu trebuia, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, s\u0103 aleag\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu \u00eentre mine \u0219i tat\u0103l lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centre familia pe care o construise \u0219i regula dup\u0103 care tr\u0103ise toat\u0103 copil\u0103ria: tat\u0103l nu se contrazice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen seara aceea, Radu a venit acas\u0103 cu ni\u0219te foi tip\u0103rite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le-a pus pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAm g\u0103sit o garsonier\u0103 mobilat\u0103 la zece minute de aici.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a uitat la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePentru cine?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePentru tine, tat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu voi uita niciodat\u0103 expresia socrului meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u0103 dai afar\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu. \u00ce\u021bi pl\u0103tesc eu jum\u0103tate din chirie p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencepe renovarea. Dar aici nu mai putem continua.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a ridicat at\u00e2t de repede \u00eenc\u00e2t scaunul s-a \u00eempins \u00een spate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDup\u0103 tot ce am f\u0103cut pentru tine?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218tiu ce-ai f\u0103cut.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTe-am \u021binut \u00een \u0219coli. Te-am ajutat cu avansul la apartament.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu a \u00eenchis ochii o secund\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acolo era pre\u021bul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tat\u0103l lui chiar ne ajutase cu bani c\u00e2nd cump\u0103raser\u0103m apartamentul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i acum \u00eei cerea, f\u0103r\u0103 s-o spun\u0103 direct, plata acelei datorii \u00een ascultare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218tiu\u201d, a repetat Radu. \u201e\u0218i n-am uitat. Dar ajutorul de atunci nu-\u021bi cump\u0103r\u0103 dreptul s\u0103 conduci familia mea acum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie s-a uitat la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAsta e de la ea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu a cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu. Asta e partea pe care trebuia s-o spun eu de la \u00eenceput.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N-a plecat \u00een seara aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nici a doua zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trei zile aproape c\u0103 nu ne-a vorbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A refuzat garsoniera, spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 mai bine se \u00eentoarce singur la Buz\u0103u, chiar dac\u0103 locuin\u021ba urma s\u0103 intre \u00een \u0219antier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu nu a cedat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 au g\u0103sit alt\u0103 solu\u021bie: Ilie s-a mutat temporar \u00eentr-un apartament mic, \u00eenchiriat aproape de noi. Chiria ne-a lovit serios bugetul c\u00e2teva luni, iar Radu a luat ture suplimentare ca s\u0103 acopere partea pe care promisese c\u0103 o pl\u0103te\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A fost un cost real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar, pentru prima dat\u0103, costul p\u0103cii nu mai eram eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rela\u021bia dintre ei s-a r\u0103cit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie venea s\u0103-i vad\u0103 pe copii, dar nu mai avea acces la fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103, fiecare mas\u0103 \u0219i fiecare ceart\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Primele vizite au fost tensionate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o duminic\u0103, Maria a l\u0103sat o juc\u0103rie \u00een mijlocul sufrageriei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilie a deschis gura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi s-a uitat la Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Radu n-a spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doar l-a privit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Socrul meu a \u00eenchis gura \u0219i s-a a\u0219ezat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu s-a transformat peste noapte \u00eentr-un bunic bl\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici eu nu am uitat tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar grani\u021ba exista acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, mai important, Radu \u00een\u021belesese c\u0103 neutralitatea lui nu fusese niciodat\u0103 neutr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd el spunea \u201enu vreau scandal\u201d, \u00een realitate m\u0103 l\u0103sa pe mine s\u0103 suport conflictul ca el s\u0103 nu fie nevoit s\u0103-l aib\u0103 cu tat\u0103l lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103, dup\u0103 ce copiii adormiser\u0103, mi-a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eC\u00e2nd eram mic, dac\u0103 tata spunea ceva, se f\u0103cea. Nici nu mi-am dat seama c\u0103 am adus regula asta \u00een casa noastr\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am uitat la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDar ai adus-o.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218tiu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De data asta nu i-am spus c\u0103 e \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 nu fusese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar era prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd sim\u021beam c\u0103 nu mai trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 lupt singur\u0103 ca s\u0103 existe loc \u0219i pentru vocea mea \u00een propria cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori asta e diferen\u021ba dintre o familie \u00een care exist\u0103 reguli \u0219i una \u00een care un singur om are voie s\u0103 le fac\u0103 pe toate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 Radu nu mi-a r\u0103spuns imediat. \u0218i tocmai t\u0103cerea lui mi-a dat r\u0103spunsul. \u201eTu i-ai spus tat\u0103lui t\u0103u c\u0103 lucrurile au sc\u0103pat de sub control \u00een casa noastr\u0103?\u201d \u201eNu \u00een sensul \u0103sta.\u201d Ilie a pufnit. \u201eBa exact \u00een sensul \u0103sta.\u201d Radu s-a \u00eentors spre el. \u201eTat\u0103\u2026\u201d \u201eCe? Acum trebuie &#8230; <a title=\"\u201eDomnule colonel, \u00een casa mea nu v\u0103 dau raportul.\u201d Socrul meu se mutase la noi \u201epentru dou\u0103-trei luni\u201d, dar dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni ajunsese s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 la ce or\u0103 se trezesc copiii, ce m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u0219i chiar ce am voie s\u0103 cump\u0103r.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=7029\" aria-label=\"Read more about \u201eDomnule colonel, \u00een casa mea nu v\u0103 dau raportul.\u201d Socrul meu se mutase la noi \u201epentru dou\u0103-trei luni\u201d, dar dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni ajunsese s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 la ce or\u0103 se trezesc copiii, ce m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u0219i chiar ce am voie s\u0103 cump\u0103r.\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7029","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7029","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7029"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7029\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7030,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7029\/revisions\/7030"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7029"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7029"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7029"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}