Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 \u2014 Rolul meu? a repetat Sorin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Da. Mi-ai explicat foarte clar ce a\u0219tep\u021bi de la femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine. Acum spune-mi ce oferi tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S-a sprijinit de blat \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit de parc\u0103 r\u0103spunsul era evident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Stabilitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 stabilitate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Un b\u0103rbat serios. O cas\u0103 bun\u0103. Siguran\u021b\u0103. S\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 ai pe cineva l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am privit \u00een jur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Apartamentul este al t\u0103u?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Al meu este tot al meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Z\u00e2mbetul i s-a mic\u0219orat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Adriana, nu facem contabilitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu. \u00cencerc doar s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg testul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am ar\u0103tat spre ingredientele de pe blat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Eu g\u0103tesc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u00centr-o rela\u021bie serioas\u0103, normal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Cur\u0103\u021benia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu cred c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-i spun unui adult c\u0103 o cas\u0103 trebuie \u00eentre\u021binut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Rufele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Femeile se pricep mai bine la lucrurile astea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Cump\u0103r\u0103turile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Putem merge \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u0218i cheltuielile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aici r\u0103spunsul a venit imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Evident c\u0103 le \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim. Suntem doi adul\u021bi cu venituri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva secunde uit\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Ce este amuzant?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Poftim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 La facturi suntem \u00een 2026, Sorin. La chiuvet\u0103 suntem \u00een 1975.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S-a \u00eencruntat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu am spus asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Ba exact asta ai spus. Jum\u0103tate din cheltuieli sunt ale mele, dar toat\u0103 casa este tot a mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Eu fac lucrurile de b\u0103rbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Care?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A deschis gura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi a \u00eenchis-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Dac\u0103 se stric\u0103 ceva, repar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 C\u00e2t de des \u021bi se stric\u0103 instala\u021bia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu despre asta este vorba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u0218i eu g\u0103tesc de c\u00e2te ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Adriana, devii ridicol\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am luat geanta de pe scaun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu. Doar c\u0103 testul t\u0103u func\u021bioneaz\u0103 mai bine dec\u00e2t credeai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 spui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Am aflat exact ce voiam s\u0103 \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sorin a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se enerveze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u0218tii care este problema femeilor din ziua de azi? Nu mai vre\u021bi s\u0103 face\u021bi nimic pentru un b\u0103rbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am uitat la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Am crescut doi copii. Am fost c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 aproape treizeci de ani. \u0218tiu s\u0103 g\u0103tesc, s\u0103 sp\u0103l, s\u0103 calc \u0219i s\u0103 \u021bin o cas\u0103. \u0218i, dac\u0103 omul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine este bolnav, pot s\u0103 stau l\u00e2ng\u0103 el zi \u0219i noapte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am f\u0103cut un pas spre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Problema nu este c\u0103 nu pot s\u0103 fac lucrurile astea. Problema este c\u0103 tu ai crezut c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 dau examen ca s\u0103 merit s\u0103 fiu cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Dac\u0103 mi-ai fi spus: \u201cAdriana, hai s\u0103 g\u0103tim \u00eempreun\u0103\u201d, probabil acum t\u0103iam ceapa \u0219i r\u00e2deam am\u00e2ndoi. Dac\u0103 g\u0103seam vasele \u00een chiuvet\u0103, probabil te ajutam s\u0103 le str\u00e2ngem f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi ceri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am ar\u0103tat spre blat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Dar tu ai cump\u0103rat ingredientele, ai l\u0103sat vasele acolo \u0219i m-ai chemat special ca s\u0103 vezi dac\u0103 m\u0103 apuc singur\u0103 de treab\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Voiam s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 e\u0219ti gospodin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Iar eu voiam s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 e\u0219ti partener.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am luat cutia cu pr\u0103jituri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 am\u00e2ndoi am primit r\u0103spunsul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am pornit spre hol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sorin a venit dup\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Serios? Pleci pentru at\u00e2t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am \u00eenc\u0103l\u021bat f\u0103r\u0103 grab\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu plec pentru ni\u0219te cartofi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Atunci pentru ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Pentru felul \u00een care g\u00e2nde\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A oftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Adriana, ai cincizeci \u0219i cinci de ani. Nu mai avem dou\u0103zeci. La v\u00e2rsta asta trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 facem compromisuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am \u00eentors spre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Atunci?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Compromisul \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 facem am\u00e2ndoi c\u00e2te un pas. Nu ca eu s\u0103 fac doi pa\u0219i spre buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i tu s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i pe canapea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A devenit ro\u0219u la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Cu preten\u021biile astea o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Replica aceea probabil trebuia s\u0103 m\u0103 sperie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate cu zece ani \u00eenainte ar fi reu\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar la cincizeci \u0219i cinci de ani \u00eenv\u0103\u021basem ceva ce mi-a luat mult timp s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Sorin, eu nu m\u0103 tem s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S-a uitat la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 M\u0103 tem s\u0103 ajung din nou \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie \u00een care m\u0103 simt singur\u0103 \u00een doi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N-a mai spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am deschis u\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u0218i pr\u0103jiturile? a \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am uitat la cutia din m\u00e2na mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Eu le-am cump\u0103rat. Testul t\u0103u nu includea \u0219i desertul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am plecat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103 am stat c\u00e2teva minute f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pornesc motorul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eram furioas\u0103, dar mai ales dezam\u0103git\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cemi pl\u0103cuse Sorin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tocmai de aceea m\u0103 durea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar preferam s\u0103 aflu dup\u0103 dou\u0103 luni dec\u00e2t dup\u0103 doi ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen urm\u0103toarea diminea\u021b\u0103 mi-a trimis un mesaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cCred c\u0103 ai exagerat. A fost doar un test.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore a venit altul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cVoiam doar s\u0103 aflu dac\u0103 e\u0219ti genul de femeie cu care se poate construi ceva.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPutem s\u0103 uit\u0103m ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i s\u0103 lu\u0103m cina undeva?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am citit mesajul de dou\u0103 ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De data aceasta i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNu trebuie s\u0103 uit\u0103m nimic. Testul a fost foarte util.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A r\u0103spuns aproape imediat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAtunci ai \u00een\u021beles ce voiam s\u0103 spun?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDa. \u0218i tu ai picat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dup\u0103 aceea am \u00eenchis conversa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen seara aceea, fiica mea a trecut pe la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am pus cafeaua \u0219i am scos din frigider cutia cu pr\u0103jituri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu trebuiau s\u0103 fie pentru Sorin? m-a \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Trebuiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am pus c\u00e2te una pe dou\u0103 farfurii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 A preferat chiftele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fiica mea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I-am povestit tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La final m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nu-\u021bi pare r\u0103u?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am g\u00e2ndit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 nu era omul pe care \u00eel credeam. Dar nu-mi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am aflat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i acesta era adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu cred c\u0103 este gre\u0219it ca o femeie s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 pentru b\u0103rbatul pe care \u00eel iube\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu cred c\u0103 este gre\u0219it nici ca un b\u0103rbat s\u0103-\u0219i doreasc\u0103 m\u00e2ncare g\u0103tit\u0103, o cas\u0103 \u00eengrijit\u0103 sau o femeie atent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 enorm\u0103 \u00eentre lucrurile pe care le faci pentru cineva din dragoste \u0219i lucrurile pe care cineva consider\u0103 c\u0103 i le datorezi doar pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti femeie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La cincizeci \u0219i cinci de ani nu mai aveam nevoie s\u0103 demonstrez nim\u0103nui c\u0103 \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u021bin o cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cenv\u0103\u021basem ceva mult mai important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0103 recunosc o cas\u0103 \u00een care nu vreau s\u0103-mi petrec restul vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49 \u2014 Rolul meu? a repetat Sorin. \u2014 Da. Mi-ai explicat foarte clar ce a\u0219tep\u021bi de la femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine. Acum spune-mi ce oferi tu. S-a sprijinit de blat \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit de parc\u0103 r\u0103spunsul era evident. \u2014 Stabilitate. \u2014 Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 stabilitate? \u2014 Un b\u0103rbat serios. O … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6155","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6155","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6155"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6155\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6156,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6155\/revisions\/6156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6155"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6155"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6155"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}