{"id":5884,"date":"2026-09-01T13:34:07","date_gmt":"2026-09-01T13:34:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=5884"},"modified":"2026-09-01T13:34:07","modified_gmt":"2026-09-01T13:34:07","slug":"mama-de-ce-nu-ne-ai-spus-ca-nu-ti-mai-ajung-banii-am-intrebat-o-dupa-ce-am-deschis-frigiderul-si-am-vazut-doua-oua-o-bucata-de-branza-si-o-cratita-aproape-goala-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=5884","title":{"rendered":"\u201eMam\u0103, de ce nu ne-ai spus c\u0103 nu-\u021bi mai ajung banii?\u201d, am \u00eentrebat-o dup\u0103 ce am deschis frigiderul \u0219i am v\u0103zut dou\u0103 ou\u0103, o bucat\u0103 de br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u0219i o crati\u021b\u0103 aproape goal\u0103."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49Mama \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru cine pui bani deoparte \u00een fiecare lun\u0103? am \u00eentrebat din nou.<\/p>\n<p>N-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eentors caietul spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen dreptul sumelor de 50 sau 100 de lei ap\u0103reau dou\u0103 litere.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eN\u201d \u0219i \u201eD\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00eenceput nu am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge stomacul.<\/p>\n<p>Natalia \u0219i David.<\/p>\n<p>Copiii mei.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103\u2026 banii \u0103\u0219tia sunt pentru nepo\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p>A oftat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mai vine ziua unuia, mai vine Cr\u0103ciunul\u2026 Ce s\u0103 m\u0103 duc la copii cu m\u00e2na goal\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat din nou la pagin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pensia era trecut\u0103 sus.<\/p>\n<p>Dedesubt, mama sc\u0103dea tot.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centre\u021binerea.<\/p>\n<p>Curentul.<\/p>\n<p>Gazele.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonul.<\/p>\n<p>Medicamentele.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi m\u00e2ncarea.<\/p>\n<p>La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul unor luni r\u0103m\u00e2neau 180 de lei.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen altele, 140.<\/p>\n<p>Dar aproape de fiecare dat\u0103 ap\u0103reau acelea\u0219i dou\u0103 ini\u021biale.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eN \u2013 50.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201eD \u2013 50.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am ridicat ochii.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu pui bani deoparte pentru copiii mei \u0219i \u00eemprumu\u021bi medicamente de la vecin\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u00een fiecare lun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 fac? Sunt bunica lor.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i eu sunt fiul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>Am continuat s\u0103 r\u0103sfoiesc.<\/p>\n<p>Pe unele pagini scria:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eCarne \u2013 nu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201eFructe \u2013 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201eCafea \u2013 mai am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201ePastile \u2013 dup\u0103 pensie.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nu era contabilitate.<\/p>\n<p>Era o list\u0103 cu lucrurile la care mama renun\u021ba ca s\u0103-i ajung\u0103 banii.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, dintr-odat\u0103, mi-am amintit toate vizitele din ultimul an.<\/p>\n<p>De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd venea la noi, avea ceva \u00een geant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>O ciocolat\u0103 pentru copii.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2te 50 de lei \u00eentr-un plic.<\/p>\n<p>O pung\u0103 cu mere.<\/p>\n<p>De Pa\u0219te venise cu dou\u0103 sute de lei pentru nepo\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, de unde ai avut banii de Pa\u0219te?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 I-am str\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De unde?<\/p>\n<p>A ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 C\u00e2te pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eenchis caietul.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai puteam s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce ai f\u0103cut asta?<\/p>\n<p>Atunci mama s-a uitat la mine de parc\u0103 \u00eentrebarea mea era absurd\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 sunt nepo\u021bii mei.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar ei au!<\/p>\n<p>Vocea mi s-a ridicat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vreau.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Au haine. Au m\u00e2ncare. Au tot ce le trebuie. Nu aveau nevoie de cei 50 de lei ai t\u0103i.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci de ce?<\/p>\n<p>Mama a z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 mie \u00eemi place s\u0103 le dau.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi a spus \u00eencet:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 nu mai pot s\u0103 v\u0103 ajut cu nimic, m\u0103car s\u0103 simt \u0219i eu c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 sunt bunic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Asta m-a lovit mai tare dec\u00e2t frigiderul gol.<\/p>\n<p>Eu v\u0103zusem problema simplu.<\/p>\n<p>Mama nu avea suficien\u021bi bani.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cei d\u0103m bani.<\/p>\n<p>Rezolvat.<\/p>\n<p>Dar pentru ea nu era at\u00e2t de simplu.<\/p>\n<p>Toat\u0103 via\u021ba fusese omul care d\u0103dea.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd eram copii, ea cump\u0103ra.<\/p>\n<p>Ea g\u0103tea.<\/p>\n<p>Ea economisea.<\/p>\n<p>Ea g\u0103sea o solu\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p>Iar acum noi voiam s\u0103-i spunem:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eGata. Tu nu mai dai. De acum prime\u0219ti.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pentru noi era ajutor.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru ea putea s\u0103 \u00eensemne c\u0103 devenise o povar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>M-am a\u0219ezat din nou l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Uite ce facem. Nu-\u021bi iau caietul \u0219i nu-\u021bi spun ce s\u0103 faci cu pensia ta.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 N-am nevoie de bani, Ioane.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p>Aproape c\u0103 am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai de toate.<\/p>\n<p>S-a uitat la mine \u0219i a \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een ziua aceea a z\u00e2mbit \u0219i ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar de luna viitoare, eu pl\u0103tesc \u00eentre\u021binerea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nici vorb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci Alina.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nici ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci o pl\u0103te\u0219te pisica, dac\u0103 asta te face s\u0103 te sim\u021bi mai bine.<\/p>\n<p>Mama a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 N-am pisic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi cump\u0103r\u0103m \u0219i pisic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 S\u0103 nu \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p>Era prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd r\u00e2deam cu to\u021bii \u00een ziua aceea.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 n-am reu\u0219it s-o conving s\u0103 accepte un card \u0219i nici bani pu\u0219i direct \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 am g\u0103sit alt\u0103 variant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 ocup eu de c\u00e2teva dintre facturile ei.<\/p>\n<p>Sora mea a preluat o parte din medicamente.<\/p>\n<p>Iar eu \u0219i Alina am \u00eenceput s\u0103 mergem mai des la cump\u0103r\u0103turi cu mama.<\/p>\n<p>Nu pentru ea.<\/p>\n<p>Asta era foarte important.<\/p>\n<p>Cu ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, ce lu\u0103m?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nimic.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Bine. Atunci mergem prin magazin \u0219i ne uit\u0103m la rafturi dou\u0103 ore.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, \u00eencepuse s\u0103 cedeze.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 tot suntem aici, ia ni\u0219te ro\u0219ii.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Br\u00e2nza aia pare bun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, \u00eentr-o zi:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Piersicile sunt la ofert\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Le-am pus \u00een co\u0219.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dou\u0103 kilograme.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E\u0219ti nebun? Cine m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 dou\u0103 kilograme?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Se stric\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci le dai Marianei.<\/p>\n<p>A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiam c\u0103 o prinsesem.<\/p>\n<p>Am pus dou\u0103 kilograme.<\/p>\n<p>Dar am f\u0103cut \u0219i altceva.<\/p>\n<p>Le-am spus copiilor c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd bunica le mai \u00eentinde c\u00e2te un plic, s\u0103 nu-l refuze.<\/p>\n<p>Natalia a protestat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar tata, bunica n-are mul\u021bi bani.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci de ce s\u0103-i lu\u0103m?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 uneori, c\u00e2nd iube\u0219ti pe cineva, trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tii \u0219i s\u0103 prime\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p>De ziua Nataliei, mama i-a \u00eentins un plic.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru tine, mamaie.<\/p>\n<p>Natalia s-a uitat o secund\u0103 spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi a luat plicul \u0219i \u0219i-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at bunica.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n<p>Mama s-a luminat la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen\u0103untru erau 50 de lei.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru Natalia probabil nu \u00eensemnau mare lucru.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru mama \u00eensemnau enorm.<\/p>\n<p>\u00censemnau c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 putea s\u0103 ofere.<\/p>\n<p>Au trecut c\u00e2teva luni.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 m-a sunat tanti Mariana.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd i-am v\u0103zut numele pe ecran, m-am speriat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nimic, m\u0103i Ioane. Stai lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n<p>R\u00e2dea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am zis doar s\u0103-\u021bi spun c\u0103 am v\u0103zut-o pe maic\u0103-ta venind de la pia\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Avea dou\u0103 saco\u0219e de abia le ducea.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Asta-i bine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Foarte bine. Mai ales c\u0103 a venit \u0219i la mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mi-a adus piersici.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>Mariana a continuat:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mi le-a pus pe mas\u0103 \u0219i mi-a zis: \u201eIa \u0219i tu, c\u0103 iar au venit copiii \u0219i mi-au umplut casa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce am \u00eenchis telefonul, m-am uitat mult timp la ecran.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ziua \u00een care g\u0103sisem frigiderul aproape gol, crezusem c\u0103 cel mai r\u0103u lucru era c\u0103 mama nu ne spusese c\u0103 are nevoie de ajutor.<\/p>\n<p>Mai t\u00e2rziu am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 gre\u0219isem.<\/p>\n<p>Problema era c\u0103 eu o \u00eentrebasem ani \u00eentregi:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAi nevoie de ceva?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiind foarte bine ce avea s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Acum nu o mai \u00eentreb.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 duc la ea.<\/p>\n<p>Deschid frigiderul.<\/p>\n<p>St\u0103m la cafea.<\/p>\n<p>Mai pl\u0103tesc c\u00e2te ceva \u00eenainte s\u0103 apuce s\u0103 protesteze.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i o las s\u0103 strecoare c\u00e2te 50 de lei \u00een buzunarul nepo\u021bilor atunci c\u00e2nd crede c\u0103 nu m\u0103 uit.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 mama nu avea nevoie doar s\u0103 primeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Avea nevoie s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 poate s\u0103 dea.<\/p>\n<p>Iar asta a fost partea pe care mi-a luat cel mai mult timp s-o \u00een\u021beleg.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49Mama \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea. \u2014 Pentru cine pui bani deoparte \u00een fiecare lun\u0103? am \u00eentrebat din nou. N-a r\u0103spuns. Am \u00eentors caietul spre mine. \u00cen dreptul sumelor de 50 sau 100 de lei ap\u0103reau dou\u0103 litere. \u201eN\u201d \u0219i \u201eD\u201d. La \u00eenceput nu am \u00een\u021beles. Apoi am sim\u021bit cum mi &#8230; <a title=\"\u201eMam\u0103, de ce nu ne-ai spus c\u0103 nu-\u021bi mai ajung banii?\u201d, am \u00eentrebat-o dup\u0103 ce am deschis frigiderul \u0219i am v\u0103zut dou\u0103 ou\u0103, o bucat\u0103 de br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u0219i o crati\u021b\u0103 aproape goal\u0103.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=5884\" aria-label=\"Read more about \u201eMam\u0103, de ce nu ne-ai spus c\u0103 nu-\u021bi mai ajung banii?\u201d, am \u00eentrebat-o dup\u0103 ce am deschis frigiderul \u0219i am v\u0103zut dou\u0103 ou\u0103, o bucat\u0103 de br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u0219i o crati\u021b\u0103 aproape goal\u0103.\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5884"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5884\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}