{"id":5209,"date":"2026-08-25T07:30:42","date_gmt":"2026-08-25T07:30:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=5209"},"modified":"2026-08-25T07:30:43","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T07:30:43","slug":"am-aproape-60-de-ani-si-sunt-casatorita-cu-un-barbat-cu-30-de-ani-mai-tanar-decat-mine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=5209","title":{"rendered":"Am aproape 60 de ani \u0219i sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 cu un b\u0103rbat cu 30 de ani mai t\u00e2n\u0103r dec\u00e2t mine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu mai pot respira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00e2inile \u00eemi tremurau c\u00e2nd am luat foaia. Literele mi se amestecau \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Popescu \u2014 a spus medicul \u00eencet \u2014 \u00een proba aceasta exist\u0103 o substan\u021b\u0103 sedativ\u0103 puternic\u0103. \u00cen doze mici, te adoarme. \u00cen timp\u2026 afecteaz\u0103 memoria, reflexele, voin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am ridicat privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Adic\u0103\u2026?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Adic\u0103 cineva v\u0103 \u021bine \u00eentr-o stare de sl\u0103biciune. Controlat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi s-a f\u0103cut frig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toate serile\u2026 toate paharele\u2026 toate dimine\u021bile \u00een care m\u0103 sim\u021beam ame\u021bit\u0103, obosit\u0103\u2026 le pusesem pe seama v\u00e2rstei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu era v\u00e2rsta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am ie\u0219it din clinic\u0103 ca \u00eentr-un vis. Bucure\u0219tiul era agitat, oamenii gr\u0103bi\u021bi, ma\u0219inile claxonau\u2026 dar pentru mine totul era \u00eenfundat, ca sub ap\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218ase ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218ase ani \u00een care am avut \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218ase ani \u00een care l-am iubit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218ase ani \u00een care am b\u0103ut, sear\u0103 de sear\u0103\u2026 ce-mi d\u0103dea el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen acea sear\u0103 nu i-am spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am z\u00e2mbit. Am m\u00e2ncat. M-am comportat normal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar el\u2026 la fel ca \u00eentotdeauna, calm, atent, perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u021ai-am f\u0103cut ceaiul \u2014 mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am luat paharul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De data asta, l-am dus la buze\u2026 dar nu am b\u0103ut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 M\u0103 duc p\u00e2n\u0103 la baie \u2014 i-am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i am aruncat totul \u00een chiuvet\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen noaptea aceea nu am dormit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am stat \u0219i l-am privit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fa\u021ba lui lini\u0219tit\u0103\u2026 respira\u021bia calm\u0103\u2026 omul pe care \u00eel credeam sprijinul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva dureros:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu-l cuno\u0219team deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A doua zi diminea\u021b\u0103 am sunat un avocat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu unul oarecare. Unul bun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I-am spus tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Vreau s\u0103-l prind \u2014 am spus \u2014 \u0219i vreau s\u0103 scap de el f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pierd nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Planul s-a f\u0103cut repede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Timp de o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 am continuat s\u0103 joc rolul femeii naive. Beam \u201eceaiul\u201d\u2026 dar \u00eel aruncam de fiecare dat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centre timp, am montat camere discrete \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u00eentr-o sear\u0103\u2026 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Andrei a scos sticlu\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pus pic\u0103turile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Totul a fost filmat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd i-am ar\u0103tat \u00eenregistrarea\u2026 nu a mai z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru prima dat\u0103, masca i-a c\u0103zut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu e ce crezi \u2014 a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar era exact ce credeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voia s\u0103 m\u0103 sl\u0103beasc\u0103. S\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 dependent\u0103. S\u0103 m\u0103 controleze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate, \u00eentr-o zi\u2026 s\u0103 semnez ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau s\u0103 nu mai pot reac\u021biona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu am mai a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L-am dat afar\u0103 din cas\u0103 \u00een aceea\u0219i zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu poli\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu avocatul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Divor\u021bul a fost rapid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dovezile\u2026 prea clare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A plecat f\u0103r\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niciun leu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nicio explica\u021bie care s\u0103 mai conteze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen prima noapte singur\u0103\u2026 am stat \u00een pat \u0219i am pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu de fric\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu de pierdere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci de furie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i apoi\u2026 de u\u0219urare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, eram treaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu adev\u0103rat treaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar diminea\u021ba, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 ani de zile, mi-am f\u0103cut singur\u0103 un ceai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Simplu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Curat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i l-am b\u0103ut p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 team\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D21879&amp;description=Am+aproape+60+de+ani+%C8%99i+sunt+c%C4%83s%C4%83torit%C4%83+cu+un+b%C4%83rbat+cu+30+de+ani+mai+t%C3%A2n%C4%83r+dec%C3%A2t+mine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D21879\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D21879&amp;text=Am+aproape+60+de+ani+%C8%99i+sunt+c%C4%83s%C4%83torit%C4%83+cu+un+b%C4%83rbat+cu+30+de+ani+mai+t%C3%A2n%C4%83r+dec%C3%A2t+mine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu mai pot respira. M\u00e2inile \u00eemi tremurau c\u00e2nd am luat foaia. Literele mi se amestecau \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor. \u2014 Doamn\u0103 Popescu \u2014 a spus medicul \u00eencet \u2014 \u00een proba aceasta exist\u0103 o substan\u021b\u0103 sedativ\u0103 puternic\u0103. \u00cen doze mici, te adoarme. \u00cen timp\u2026 afecteaz\u0103 memoria, reflexele, voin\u021ba. 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