{"id":4770,"date":"2026-08-21T07:07:14","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T07:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4770"},"modified":"2026-08-21T07:07:14","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T07:07:14","slug":"sotul-meu-a-disparut-trei-zile-la-amanta-cand-s-a-intors-se-astepta-sa-tip-sa-plang-si-sa-l-dau-afara-in-schimb-i-am-pus-cina-pe-masa-si-am-zambit-nu-stia-ca-in-timp-ce-el-era-cu-ea-eu-ma-preg-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4770","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bul meu a disp\u0103rut trei zile la amant\u0103. C\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors, se a\u0219tepta s\u0103 \u021bip, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u0219i s\u0103-l dau afar\u0103. \u00cen schimb, i-am pus cina pe mas\u0103 \u0219i am z\u00e2mbit. Nu \u0219tia c\u0103, \u00een timp ce el era cu ea, eu m\u0103 preg\u0103tisem."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Partea 2-a, continuarea pove\u0219tii<\/p>\n<p>Mihai a r\u0103mas cu ochii la plic.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 spui c\u0103 \u0219tii unde am fost?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Exact ce ai auzit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ana\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Deschide-l.<\/p>\n<p>A rupt marginea plicului \u0219i a scos c\u00e2teva foi. Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce le citea, expresia i s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n<p>Nu erau fotografii cu el \u0219i Maria.<\/p>\n<p>Nu erau mesaje tip\u0103rite \u0219i nici vreo \u00eencercare de a-l umili.<\/p>\n<p>Erau actele preg\u0103tite pentru divor\u021b.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu\u2026 vrei s\u0103 divor\u021bezi?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu, Mihai. Eu am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 divor\u021bez.<\/p>\n<p>A l\u0103sat foile pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Din cauza ultimelor trei zile?<\/p>\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit amar.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Chiar crezi c\u0103 am aflat acum?<\/p>\n<p>A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>M-am a\u0219ezat \u00een fa\u021ba lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu de Maria de aproape patru luni.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u021ba i s-a albit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Patru luni?!<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Prima dat\u0103 am v\u0103zut un mesaj. Apoi au \u00eenceput \u201e\u0219edin\u021bele\u201d p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu, telefonul \u00eentors cu ecranul \u00een jos, delega\u021biile care nu existau\u2026 N-a fost foarte greu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i n-ai spus nimic?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce voiai s\u0103 fac? S\u0103 te \u00eentreb ca s\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 sunt paranoic\u0103? S\u0103 pl\u00e2ng p\u00e2n\u0103-mi promiteai c\u0103 nu se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Puteam s\u0103 discut\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai avut un an \u00eentreg s\u0103 discut\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai s-a ridicat \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se plimbe prin camer\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ana, lucrurile nu sunt at\u00e2t de simple.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ba sunt.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219tii ce a fost \u00eentre mine \u0219i Maria.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nici nu vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n<p>Asta l-a lovit mai tare dec\u00e2t orice repro\u0219.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci de ce m-ai primit a\u0219a? De ce mi-ai pus m\u00e2ncare? De ce te-ai purtat de parc\u0103 nu s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat nimic?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat spre hol, s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 nu se treziser\u0103 copiii.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru ei.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Copiii nu aveau nevoie s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii url\u00e2nd unul la altul la cin\u0103. Tu ai f\u0103cut alegerile tale. Eu le voi face pe ale mele f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i transform pe ei \u00een spectatori.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai s-a a\u0219ezat din nou.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 p\u0103rea speriat cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce ai f\u0103cut \u00een ultimele trei zile?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce trebuia s\u0103 fac de luni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd plecase, nu \u0219tiam sigur dac\u0103 urma s\u0103 lipseasc\u0103 o noapte sau trei.<\/p>\n<p>Dar c\u00e2nd mi-a trimis mesajul sec c\u0103 \u201es-a prelungit deplasarea\u201d, am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen diminea\u021ba urm\u0103toare \u00eemi luasem o zi liber\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>M-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu o avocat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am pus pe mas\u0103 situa\u021bia noastr\u0103 financiar\u0103, actele casei, creditele, economiile \u0219i cheltuielile copiilor.<\/p>\n<p>Nu ca s\u0103-i iau lui Mihai tot.<\/p>\n<p>Ci ca s\u0103 aflu ce era al meu \u0219i cum puteam ie\u0219i din c\u0103snicie f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 trezesc nepreg\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Deschisesem un cont separat pentru salariul meu.<\/p>\n<p>F\u0103cusem copii dup\u0103 documentele importante.<\/p>\n<p>Vorbisem cu sora mea, singura persoan\u0103 c\u0103reia \u00eei m\u0103rturisisem adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 luni \u00eentregi, aveam un plan.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai preg\u0103tit toate astea \u00een timp ce eu eram plecat? m-a \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Am \u00eenceput mai demult. Cele trei zile doar m-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 nu mai am nicio \u00eendoial\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonul lui a vibrat pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ecranul s-a aprins.<\/p>\n<p>Maria.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai l-a \u00eentors imediat.<\/p>\n<p>Am observat gestul \u0219i am r\u00e2s \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Po\u021bi s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce? Te a\u0219teapt\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ana, termin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu eu am \u00eenceput povestea asta.<\/p>\n<p>A luat telefonul \u0219i a \u00eenchis apelul.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde a spus:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103-mi pierd familia.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een seara aceea am sim\u021bit furie.<\/p>\n<p>Nu pentru Maria.<\/p>\n<p>Ci pentru propozi\u021bia aceea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Familia n-ai pierdut-o ast\u0103zi, Mihai. Ai pierdut-o pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin, de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd ai ie\u0219it pe u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i m-ai min\u021bit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pot s\u0103 termin cu ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i asta ar trebui s\u0103 schimbe ce?<\/p>\n<p>N-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 Maria disp\u0103rea m\u00e2ine, tot ai r\u0103m\u00e2ne b\u0103rbatul care m-a min\u021bit un an.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Ai f\u0103cut o alegere. De sute de ori.<\/p>\n<p>S-a l\u0103sat lini\u0219tea.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi Mihai a spus:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 D\u0103-mi o \u0219ans\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai avut-o.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru copii, m\u0103car.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tocmai pentru copii nu vreau s\u0103-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b c\u0103 o familie \u00eenseamn\u0103 ca unul s\u0103 mint\u0103, iar cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 accepte de fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 singur.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai \u0219i-a acoperit fa\u021ba cu m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n<p>Cred c\u0103 abia atunci a \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai negociam.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen urm\u0103toarele zile, a \u00eencercat tot.<\/p>\n<p>A venit cu flori.<\/p>\n<p>A pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-a spus c\u0103 Maria fusese o gre\u0219eal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi mi-a spus c\u0103 fusese confuz.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 aceea a sus\u021binut c\u0103 \u00eentre noi ap\u0103ruser\u0103 probleme cu mult \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p>Era aproape fascinant cum, \u00een func\u021bie de or\u0103, povestea se schimba.<\/p>\n<p>Singurul lucru care nu se schimba era hot\u0103r\u00e2rea mea.<\/p>\n<p>Maria, \u00een schimb, a aflat \u0219i ea c\u0103 realitatea nu sem\u0103na deloc cu ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i imaginase.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai nu venise la ea cu bagajele.<\/p>\n<p>Nu o sunase s\u0103-i spun\u0103 c\u0103 era liber.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen schimb, \u00eei ceruse \u201epu\u021bin timp\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile, mi-a scris.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAna, cred c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 vorbim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am privit mesajul c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi am r\u0103spuns:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNu avem nimic de discutat. Problema mea a fost cu so\u021bul meu, nu cu tine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i am blocat num\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p>Nu voiam r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n<p>Nu voiam s\u0103 aflu cine f\u0103cuse primul pas sau ce promisiuni \u00eei f\u0103cuse Mihai.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru mine nu mai conta.<\/p>\n<p>Divor\u021bul n-a fost frumos \u0219i nici simplu.<\/p>\n<p>Au existat discu\u021bii despre bani, despre locuin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i, mai ales, despre programul copiilor.<\/p>\n<p>Dar tocmai pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 preg\u0103tisem \u00eenainte s\u0103-i spun ce \u0219tiu, n-am fost obligat\u0103 s\u0103 iau decizii importante \u00een panic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, m-am mutat cu copiii \u00eentr-un apartament mai mic.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen prima sear\u0103 am m\u00e2ncat pizza pe jos, printre cutii nedesf\u0103cute.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mami, c\u00e2nd termin\u0103m casa? m-a \u00eentrebat fata mea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cencet.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i o s\u0103 fie frumoas\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat \u00een jur.<\/p>\n<p>Nu aveam \u00eenc\u0103 perdele.<\/p>\n<p>Masa era \u00eentr-o cutie.<\/p>\n<p>Jum\u0103tate dintre haine erau \u00een saci.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, nu m\u0103 mai sim\u021bisem at\u00e2t de lini\u0219tit\u0103 de ani \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da, iubita mea. O s\u0103 fie foarte frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai \u0219i Maria nu au r\u0103mas \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am aflat mult mai t\u00e2rziu, de la o cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 comun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Maria \u00eel voia pe b\u0103rbatul care \u00eei promisese o via\u021b\u0103 nou\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Mihai voia, dintr-odat\u0103, via\u021ba veche \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>N-a mai avut-o pe niciuna.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, aproape un an mai t\u00e2rziu, Mihai a venit s\u0103 ia copiii.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenainte s\u0103 plece, a r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva secunde \u00een u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ana?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen seara aia\u2026 c\u00e2nd am venit acas\u0103\u2026 chiar nu ai vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi unde fusesem?<\/p>\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 uneori nu mai ai nevoie de \u00eenc\u0103 o minciun\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u0219tii deja adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p>N-a mai spus nimic.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eenchis u\u0219a dup\u0103 ei \u0219i m-am \u00eentors \u00een sufragerie.<\/p>\n<p>Pe birou aveam \u00eenc\u0103 plicul \u00een care fuseser\u0103 primele acte.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-l p\u0103strasem din triste\u021be.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cel p\u0103strasem ca s\u0103-mi amintesc ceva.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen seara \u00een care Mihai s-a \u00eentors dup\u0103 trei zile petrecute cu amanta lui, el credea c\u0103 urma s\u0103 decid\u0103 \u00eentre dou\u0103 femei.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u0219tia c\u0103 una dintre ele hot\u0103r\u00e2se deja c\u0103 nu mai vrea s\u0103 fie o op\u021biune.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea 2-a, continuarea pove\u0219tii Mihai a r\u0103mas cu ochii la plic. \u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 spui c\u0103 \u0219tii unde am fost? \u2014 Exact ce ai auzit. \u2014 Ana\u2026 \u2014 Deschide-l. A rupt marginea plicului \u0219i a scos c\u00e2teva foi. Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce le citea, expresia i s-a schimbat. Nu erau fotografii cu el \u0219i Maria. &#8230; <a title=\"So\u021bul meu a disp\u0103rut trei zile la amant\u0103. C\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors, se a\u0219tepta s\u0103 \u021bip, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u0219i s\u0103-l dau afar\u0103. \u00cen schimb, i-am pus cina pe mas\u0103 \u0219i am z\u00e2mbit. Nu \u0219tia c\u0103, \u00een timp ce el era cu ea, eu m\u0103 preg\u0103tisem.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4770\" aria-label=\"Read more about So\u021bul meu a disp\u0103rut trei zile la amant\u0103. C\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors, se a\u0219tepta s\u0103 \u021bip, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u0219i s\u0103-l dau afar\u0103. \u00cen schimb, i-am pus cina pe mas\u0103 \u0219i am z\u00e2mbit. Nu \u0219tia c\u0103, \u00een timp ce el era cu ea, eu m\u0103 preg\u0103tisem.\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4770"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4770\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}