{"id":4685,"date":"2026-08-20T13:32:25","date_gmt":"2026-08-20T13:32:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4685"},"modified":"2026-08-20T13:32:25","modified_gmt":"2026-08-20T13:32:25","slug":"aveam-7-ani-cand-un-strain-cu-doua-sacose-grele-a-intrat-in-curtea-noastra-si-m-a-intrebat-tu-esti-baiatul-meu-am-facut-un-pas-inapoi-speriat-atunci-barbatul-a-ingenuncheat-in-pr-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4685","title":{"rendered":"Aveam 7 ani c\u00e2nd un str\u0103in cu dou\u0103 saco\u0219e grele a intrat \u00een curtea noastr\u0103 \u0219i m-a \u00eentrebat: \u201eTu e\u0219ti b\u0103iatul meu?\u201d Am f\u0103cut un pas \u00eenapoi, speriat. Atunci b\u0103rbatul a \u00eengenuncheat \u00een praf \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103. Mama a ie\u0219it din cas\u0103, l-a privit \u0219i mi-a spus doar at\u00e2t: \u201eDu-te, Andrei. E tat\u0103l t\u0103u. A venit acas\u0103\u2026\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49B\u0103rbatul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 cele dou\u0103 saco\u0219e era tata.<\/p>\n<p>Dar nu mai sem\u0103na cu omul care alergase dup\u0103 bicicleta mea.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rul \u00eei albise aproape complet. Umerii \u00eei erau c\u0103zu\u021bi, iar m\u00e2inile acelea mari, care odinioar\u0103 m\u0103 ridicau de la p\u0103m\u00e2nt ca pe un fulg, p\u0103reau acum umflate \u0219i obosite.<\/p>\n<p>M-a privit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai crescut, b\u0103iete.<\/p>\n<p>Aveam dou\u0103zeci de ani, dar \u00een clipa aceea m-am sim\u021bit din nou copilul descul\u021b care alergase dup\u0103 Dacie.<\/p>\n<p>Doar c\u0103 de data aceasta nu m-am repezit spre el.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai venit \u00een concediu?<\/p>\n<p>Tata a cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Am venit acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am privit cele dou\u0103 saco\u0219e.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Definitiv?<\/p>\n<p>A z\u00e2mbit obosit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Definitiv.<\/p>\n<p>Era promisiunea pe care o auzisem toat\u0103 copil\u0103ria.<\/p>\n<p>Numai c\u0103 venise cu treisprezece ani prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p>Mama a ie\u0219it din cas\u0103 \u0219i, c\u00e2nd l-a v\u0103zut, \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ilie\u2026<\/p>\n<p>El n-a spus nimic. A l\u0103sat capul \u00een jos.<\/p>\n<p>Bunica nu mai era acolo s\u0103-l \u00eent\u00e2mpine. Murise cu doi ani \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p>Tata s-a uitat instinctiv spre locul ei de pe prisp\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 N-am apucat\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Mama s-a apropiat \u0219i i-a luat una dintre saco\u0219e.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Intr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Primele zile au fost ciudate.<\/p>\n<p>Locuiam sub acela\u0219i acoperi\u0219 cu propriul meu tat\u0103 \u0219i totu\u0219i nu \u0219tiam ce s\u0103-i spun.<\/p>\n<p>Diminea\u021ba m\u0103 \u00eentreba dac\u0103 vreau cafea.<\/p>\n<p>Eu spuneam \u201eda\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>La pr\u00e2nz m\u0103 \u00eentreba cum merge facultatea.<\/p>\n<p>Eu r\u0103spundeam \u201ebine\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Seara st\u0103team am\u00e2ndoi pe prisp\u0103 \u0219i priveam uli\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>Doi b\u0103rba\u021bi care purtau acela\u0219i nume de familie \u0219i nu \u0219tiau cum s\u0103 recupereze anii dintre ei.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 observ lucruri.<\/p>\n<p>Tata se ridica greu de pe scaun.<\/p>\n<p>Uneori \u00ee\u0219i freca \u00eencheieturile pe ascuns. Alteori tu\u0219ea p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eei d\u0103deau lacrimile, apoi spunea c\u0103 n-are nimic.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 l-am g\u0103sit \u00een \u0219opron.<\/p>\n<p>Desf\u0103cuse una dintre saco\u0219e.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen\u0103untru nu erau cadouri.<\/p>\n<p>Erau haine de munc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Bocanci uza\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103nu\u0219i groase.<\/p>\n<p>O centur\u0103 pentru spate.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i un teanc de plicuri vechi.<\/p>\n<p>Am luat unul.<\/p>\n<p>Pe el era scrisul mamei.<\/p>\n<p>\u201ePentru Ilie \u2014 Italia.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce sunt astea?<\/p>\n<p>Tata s-a \u00eentors.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru o secund\u0103, a p\u0103rut jenat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Scrisorile de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am deschis una.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen\u0103untru era un desen f\u0103cut de mine \u00een clasa \u00eent\u00e2i.<\/p>\n<p>Trei oameni \u021bin\u00e2ndu-se de m\u00e2n\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 o cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Deasupra scrisesem str\u00e2mb:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eEU, MAMA \u0218I TATA.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pe spate era o dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Tata p\u0103strase desenul treisprezece ani.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen alt plic am g\u0103sit o fotografie de la serbarea mea din clasa a patra.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen alta, diploma de la primul concurs.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi o poz\u0103 cu mine la liceu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mama \u021bi le trimitea?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pe toate.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i tu le-ai p\u0103strat?<\/p>\n<p>S-a uitat la mine de parc\u0103 \u00eentrebarea \u00eel durea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce altceva aveam?<\/p>\n<p>Atunci am v\u0103zut o fotografie mic\u0103, aproape rupt\u0103 la margini.<\/p>\n<p>Eram eu, la \u0219apte ani, \u021bin\u00e2nd \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 fluierul din soc.<\/p>\n<p>Mi s-a str\u00e2ns pieptul.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce n-ai venit, tat\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>A r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De c\u00e2te ori ai spus c\u0103 te \u00eentorci definitiv?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Nu \u0219tii.<\/p>\n<p>Toat\u0103 furia pe care o \u021binusem ani \u00eentregi a ie\u0219it atunci.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tii cum era la \u0219coal\u0103 c\u00e2nd ceilal\u021bi veneau cu ta\u021bii lor? \u0218tii cum era s\u0103 te a\u0219tept de Cr\u0103ciun \u0219i s\u0103 primesc un colet? S\u0103-mi spui la telefon c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219ti \u0219i dup\u0103 aia s\u0103 dispari alte luni?<\/p>\n<p>Tata nu s-a ap\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p>A r\u0103mas cu ochii \u00een podea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103spunsul acela m-a oprit.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 a\u0219teptasem la explica\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>La scuze.<\/p>\n<p>La \u201eam f\u0103cut-o pentru voi\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Dar el a spus doar:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n<p>S-a a\u0219ezat greu pe un scaun.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Prima dat\u0103 am plecat pentru un an. At\u00e2t trebuia s\u0103 stau.<\/p>\n<p>A z\u00e2mbit amar.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Apoi s-a stricat acoperi\u0219ul. Dup\u0103 aceea aveai nevoie de haine, de rechizite. Mai t\u00e2rziu ai vrut calculator. A venit liceul. Facultatea\u2026<\/p>\n<p>A ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De fiecare dat\u0103 \u00eemi spuneam: \u00eenc\u0103 \u0219ase luni.<\/p>\n<p>S-a uitat la m\u00e2inile lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218ase luni au devenit \u0219aptesprezece ani.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce copilul din mine refuzase mereu s\u0103 vad\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Casa \u00een care crescusem nu mai avea acoperi\u0219ul vechi.<\/p>\n<p>Mama nu r\u0103m\u0103sese niciodat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 bani pentru m\u00e2ncare.<\/p>\n<p>Eu avusesem biciclet\u0103, haine, calculator, medita\u021bii \u0219i bani s\u0103 plec la facultate.<\/p>\n<p>Crezusem c\u0103 lucrurile acelea pur \u0219i simplu existaser\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu m\u0103 \u00eentrebasem niciodat\u0103 de unde veneau.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce nu mi-ai spus?<\/p>\n<p>Tata a r\u00e2s \u00eencet.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce s\u0103-i spun unui copil? \u201eTata nu vine pentru c\u0103 trebuie pl\u0103tit\u0103 factura\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i-a trecut palma peste fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu trebuia s\u0103 fii copil, Andrei. Nu contabilul familiei.<\/p>\n<p>M-am a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 am observat c\u00e2t de b\u0103tr\u00e2n p\u0103rea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai meritat?<\/p>\n<p>S-a g\u00e2ndit mult \u00eenainte s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi s-a uitat la mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u021ai-am dat tot ce am crezut c\u0103-\u021bi trebuie.<\/p>\n<p>A f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar nu \u021bi-am dat timpul meu.<\/p>\n<p>N-am \u0219tiut ce s\u0103 spun.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i timpul nu-l mai pot cump\u0103ra \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u0103mas am\u00e2ndoi t\u0103cu\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute, tata s-a ridicat \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pun\u0103 scrisorile \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci am v\u0103zut ceva pe fundul saco\u0219ei.<\/p>\n<p>O bucat\u0103 sub\u021bire de lemn.<\/p>\n<p>Am scos-o.<\/p>\n<p>Era fluierul din soc.<\/p>\n<p>Nu acela\u0219i, desigur.<\/p>\n<p>Unul nou.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 L-ai f\u0103cut tu?<\/p>\n<p>Tata a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pe drum spre cas\u0103. Nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103-\u021bi mai aminte\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-am amintit.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-am amintit tot.<\/p>\n<p>Am ie\u0219it pe prisp\u0103 \u0219i am \u00eencercat s\u0103 suflu.<\/p>\n<p>Sunetul a ie\u0219it str\u00e2mb.<\/p>\n<p>Tata a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai uitat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 D\u0103-l \u00eencoace.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-a ar\u0103tat din nou cum s\u0103-mi \u021bin degetele.<\/p>\n<p>Exact ca atunci c\u00e2nd aveam \u0219apte ani.<\/p>\n<p>De data aceasta nu mai eram copil.<\/p>\n<p>Iar el nu mai era tat\u0103l puternic pe care \u00eel a\u0219teptasem ani \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p>Eram doar doi oameni care pierduser\u0103 mult timp \u0219i care, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, \u00eencercau s\u0103 nu-l mai piard\u0103 pe cel r\u0103mas.<\/p>\n<p>Tata nu mi-a putut da copil\u0103ria \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Nici eu n-am putut \u0219terge anii \u00een care \u00eel considerasem un str\u0103in.<\/p>\n<p>Dar \u00een lunile urm\u0103toare am \u00eenceput s\u0103 recuper\u0103m lucrurile mici.<\/p>\n<p>Cafeaua diminea\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>Drumurile p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ora\u0219.<\/p>\n<p>Reparatul gardului.<\/p>\n<p>Serile pe prisp\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o astfel de sear\u0103 l-am \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tat\u0103, dac\u0103 ai putea s\u0103 faci totul din nou, ai mai pleca?<\/p>\n<p>A privit mult timp uli\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 A\u0219 pleca dac\u0103 n-a\u0219 avea ce pune pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar m-a\u0219 \u00eentoarce mai repede. Mult mai repede.<\/p>\n<p>Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen sf\u00e2r\u0219it \u00eel \u00een\u021belegeam.<\/p>\n<p>Nu plecase fiindc\u0103 nu m\u0103 iubise.<\/p>\n<p>Plecase tocmai fiindc\u0103 m\u0103 iubise \u0219i crezuse c\u0103 dragostea unui tat\u0103 se m\u0103soar\u0103 \u00een ceea ce reu\u0219e\u0219te s\u0103 trimit\u0103 acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Doar c\u0103 unele lucruri nu \u00eencap \u00eentr-un colet.<\/p>\n<p>Anii.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u0103rile.<\/p>\n<p>Prima zi de \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Serb\u0103rile.<\/p>\n<p>Serile \u00een care un copil are nevoie doar s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 tata este \u00een camera de al\u0103turi.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc acum la copil\u0103ria mea, nu mai v\u0103d doar Dacia disp\u0103r\u00e2nd \u00een praful uli\u021bei.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cel v\u0103d \u0219i pe omul care pleca \u00een ea.<\/p>\n<p>Un tat\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i l\u0103sa copilul \u00een urm\u0103 pentru a-i construi un viitor \u0219i care nu \u0219i-a dat seama dec\u00e2t prea t\u00e2rziu c\u00e2t de scump \u00eel pl\u0103tea.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dintre toate lucrurile pe care mi le-a adus tata din str\u0103in\u0103tate, cel mai important n-a \u00eenc\u0103put niciodat\u0103 \u00een cele dou\u0103 saco\u0219e.<\/p>\n<p>A fost ziua \u00een care s-a \u00eentors definitiv.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, de data aceea, a r\u0103mas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49B\u0103rbatul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 cele dou\u0103 saco\u0219e era tata. Dar nu mai sem\u0103na cu omul care alergase dup\u0103 bicicleta mea. P\u0103rul \u00eei albise aproape complet. Umerii \u00eei erau c\u0103zu\u021bi, iar m\u00e2inile acelea mari, care odinioar\u0103 m\u0103 ridicau de la p\u0103m\u00e2nt ca pe un fulg, p\u0103reau acum umflate \u0219i obosite. M-a &#8230; <a title=\"Aveam 7 ani c\u00e2nd un str\u0103in cu dou\u0103 saco\u0219e grele a intrat \u00een curtea noastr\u0103 \u0219i m-a \u00eentrebat: \u201eTu e\u0219ti b\u0103iatul meu?\u201d Am f\u0103cut un pas \u00eenapoi, speriat. Atunci b\u0103rbatul a \u00eengenuncheat \u00een praf \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103. Mama a ie\u0219it din cas\u0103, l-a privit \u0219i mi-a spus doar at\u00e2t: \u201eDu-te, Andrei. E tat\u0103l t\u0103u. 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