{"id":4368,"date":"2026-08-17T06:28:32","date_gmt":"2026-08-17T06:28:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4368"},"modified":"2026-08-17T06:28:33","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T06:28:33","slug":"timp-de-30-de-ani-am-purtat-in-mine-cuvintele-copilul-de-care-nu-voia-nimeni-sa-aiba-grija-acum-in-fiecare-sambata-deschid-poarta-centrului-pentru-copiii-pe-care-nu-i-cauta-nimeni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4368","title":{"rendered":"Timp de 30 de ani am purtat \u00een mine cuvintele \u201ecopilul de care nu voia nimeni s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103\u201d. Acum, \u00een fiecare s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, deschid poarta centrului pentru copiii pe care nu-i caut\u0103 nimeni."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49<br>La treizeci de ani, am \u021binut pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be copilul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era un b\u0103ie\u021bel mic, ro\u0219u la fa\u021b\u0103, cu pumnii str\u00e2n\u0219i \u0219i un miros de lapte \u0219i spital. \u00cel \u021bineam cu grij\u0103, speriat s\u0103 nu-l scap, \u0219i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce nu putusem pricepe p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een acel moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00een\u021beles ce sim\u021bise tanti Sofia c\u00e2nd m\u0103 luase de m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemi spusese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 B\u0103iatul nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu era nevoie de s\u00e2nge ca s\u0103 iube\u0219ti un copil p\u00e2n\u0103 te doare. Nu era nevoie s\u0103-l fi n\u0103scut ca s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti noaptea la fiecare zgomot \u0219i s\u0103 te temi pentru el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nea Toader \u0219i tanti Sofia nu avuseser\u0103 niciodat\u0103 copii biologici. Dar m\u0103 aleseser\u0103 pe mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 eram cel mai bun copil din centru. Nu pentru c\u0103 aveam ceva special. M\u0103 aleseser\u0103 pentru c\u0103, \u00een ziua aceea, intrasem pe poarta lor cu o pung\u0103 de plastic \u0219i cu toate fricile unui copil care nu mai avea \u00eencredere \u00een nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am crescut \u00een casa lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nea Toader m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 tai lemne, s\u0103 repar un gard \u0219i s\u0103 nu-mi fie ru\u0219ine de munca grea. Tanti Sofia m\u0103 trimitea la \u0219coal\u0103 cu pachet \u0219i venea la serb\u0103rile mele, chiar dac\u0103 uneori nu \u00een\u021belegea poeziile pe care le spuneam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La optsprezece ani am plecat s\u0103 muncesc. Am lucrat pe \u0219antiere, prin Bac\u0103u \u0219i Ia\u0219i, apoi m-am angajat la o fabric\u0103 de mobil\u0103. Acolo am cunoscut-o pe Mihaela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi-era team\u0103 s\u0103-i spun de unde vin. Credeam c\u0103, dac\u0103 va afla c\u0103 am fost un copil abandonat \u0219i plimbat de la o rud\u0103 la alta, va pleca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd i-am povestit, m-a ascultat p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t. Apoi mi-a luat m\u00e2na \u0219i mi-a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bine c\u0103 ai ajuns la nea Toader \u0219i tanti Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu \u201es\u0103racul de tine\u201d. Nu \u201ece via\u021b\u0103 grea ai avut\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doar at\u00e2t:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bine c\u0103 ai ajuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am \u0219tiut c\u0103 vreau s\u0103-mi petrec via\u021ba cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne-am c\u0103s\u0103torit, ne-am f\u0103cut o cas\u0103 \u0219i, cu multe rate \u0219i sacrificii, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 construim o familie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut fiul nostru, am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu voiam s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n doar omul care supravie\u021buise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voiam s\u0103 fiu omul de care un copil s\u0103-\u0219i aminteasc\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd se g\u00e2ndea la siguran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen s\u00e2mb\u0103ta urm\u0103toare m-am \u00eentors la centrul de plasament din Vaslui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am dus fructe, caiete \u0219i c\u00e2teva juc\u0103rii. Nu \u0219tiam exact ce puteam face. Nu aveam bani mul\u021bi \u0219i nu puteam schimba via\u021ba tuturor copiilor de acolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u0219tiam cum este s\u0103 stai \u00eentr-un pat de fier \u0219i s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 vin\u0103 cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen curte, un copil m-a \u00eentrebat cine sunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Sunt Costel. Am stat \u0219i eu aici, demult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S-a uitat la mine ca la cineva care nu venea dintr-o lume perfect\u0103, ci din aceea\u0219i curte cenu\u0219ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De atunci, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc \u00een fiecare s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au trecut unsprezece ani. Am lipsit doar \u00een s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nile \u00een care s-au n\u0103scut copiii mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat numele tuturor copiilor. \u0218tiam cine primea vizite \u0219i cine nu era c\u0103utat niciodat\u0103. \u0218tiam cine se pref\u0103cea c\u0103 nu-i pas\u0103 \u0219i cine se ascundea \u00een baie ca s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe nea Toader l-am \u00eengropat acum patru ani, sub un nuc din cimitirul satului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tanti Sofia mai tr\u0103ie\u0219te. Are aproape \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vorbim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ai fost s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 la copii, b\u0103iatul meu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar eu \u00eei r\u0103spund:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Da, mam\u0103. Am fost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se bucur\u0103 de parc\u0103 i-a\u0219 fi spus c\u0103 am luat un examen important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, eram \u00een curtea centrului, pe o banc\u0103, l\u00e2ng\u0103 un b\u0103ie\u021bel de opt ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cel chema Ionu\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avea ochii mari \u0219i negri \u0219i se uita la oameni ca \u0219i cum \u00eencerca s\u0103-\u0219i dea seama dac\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ceilal\u021bi copii se jucau cu o minge dezumflat\u0103. Ionu\u021b s-a apropiat de mine \u0219i \u0219i-a lipit um\u0103rul de bra\u021bul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A stat c\u00e2teva secunde f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nea Costel\u2026 cum este s\u0103 ai tat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se opre\u0219te respira\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am trecut prin foame, frig, fric\u0103 \u0219i singur\u0103tate, dar \u00eentrebarea aceea m-a durut mai mult dec\u00e2t orice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul era c\u0103 nici eu nu \u0219tiam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu avusesem tat\u0103. Avusesem doar un nume scris cu pix albastru pe un certificat de na\u0219tere \u0219i, mai t\u00e2rziu, un b\u0103rbat care m\u0103 \u00eentrebase dac\u0103 \u00eemi era foame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu nici eu, Ionu\u021b, i-am spus \u00eencet. Am crescut f\u0103r\u0103 tat\u0103, ca tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0103iatul a r\u0103mas cu privirea \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Atunci cine a avut grij\u0103 de tine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Doi oameni care nu erau p\u0103rin\u021bii mei adev\u0103ra\u021bi, dar care m-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 simt c\u0103 sunt copilul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u0218i unde sunt acum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nea Toader a murit. Tanti Sofia \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219teapt\u0103 acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ionu\u021b s-a g\u00e2ndit pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Te a\u0219teapt\u0103 cineva \u0219i aici?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centrebarea m-a lovit direct \u00een piept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am uitat spre cl\u0103direa centrului, spre ferestrele cu perdele colorate \u0219i spre poarta pe care intrasem cu treizeci \u0219i doi de ani \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Da, i-am spus. Voi m\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0103iatul a t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi \u0219i-a pus m\u00e2na peste m\u00e2na mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Atunci vino \u0219i s\u00e2mb\u0103ta viitoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am z\u00e2mbit, de\u0219i sim\u021beam c\u0103 m\u0103 ustur\u0103 ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Vin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Promi\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Promit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A dat din cap \u0219i s-a \u00eentors spre ceilal\u021bi copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am r\u0103mas singur pe banc\u0103, privind curtea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am g\u00e2ndit la Petric\u0103, b\u0103ie\u021belul care \u00eentreba \u00een fiecare sear\u0103 dac\u0103 vine cineva a doua zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 nimeni nu venise pentru el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar eu puteam veni pentru Ionu\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puteam deschide poarta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puteam s\u0103 le \u0219tiu numele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puteam s\u0103 le spun c\u0103 nu sunt invizibili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu puteam s\u0103-i salvez pe to\u021bi. Nu puteam s\u0103 le \u00eenlocuiesc familiile \u0219i nu puteam \u0219terge anii \u00een care fuseser\u0103 abandona\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar puteam fi acolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, pentru un copil, faptul c\u0103 cineva vine \u00een fiecare s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 este \u00eenceputul unei vie\u021bi \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunica mea avusese dreptate \u00eentr-un singur lucru: copiii aud totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aud \u201ecopilul de care nu vrea nimeni s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar aud \u0219i \u201eb\u0103iatul nostru\u201d, \u201e\u021bi-e foame?\u201d \u0219i \u201evino \u0219i s\u00e2mb\u0103ta viitoare\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar cuvintele acestea r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een ei la fel de mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu am fost copilul pe care nimeni nu \u0219tia cum s\u0103-l iubeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum sunt omul care deschide poarta pentru copiii pe care nu-i caut\u0103 nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu ca s\u0103-i salvez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci ca s\u0103 nu mai \u00eentrebe, ca Petric\u0103 odinioar\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Vine cineva m\u00e2ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103, vreau s\u0103 pot r\u0103spunde de fiecare dat\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Da. Eu vin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49La treizeci de ani, am \u021binut pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be copilul meu. Era un b\u0103ie\u021bel mic, ro\u0219u la fa\u021b\u0103, cu pumnii str\u00e2n\u0219i \u0219i un miros de lapte \u0219i spital. \u00cel \u021bineam cu grij\u0103, speriat s\u0103 nu-l scap, \u0219i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva ce nu putusem pricepe p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een &#8230; <a title=\"Timp de 30 de ani am purtat \u00een mine cuvintele \u201ecopilul de care nu voia nimeni s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103\u201d. Acum, \u00een fiecare s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, deschid poarta centrului pentru copiii pe care nu-i caut\u0103 nimeni.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4368\" aria-label=\"Read more about Timp de 30 de ani am purtat \u00een mine cuvintele \u201ecopilul de care nu voia nimeni s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103\u201d. 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