{"id":4277,"date":"2026-08-16T16:37:39","date_gmt":"2026-08-16T16:37:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4277"},"modified":"2026-08-16T16:37:39","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T16:37:39","slug":"ei-acum-iti-pare-rau-ca-m-ai-pierdut-m-a-intrebat-fostul-meu-sot-la-10-ani-dupa-ce-ma-parasise-pentru-una-mai-tanara-n-am-raspuns-mi-am-scos-telefonul-si-am-deschis-o-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4277","title":{"rendered":"\u201eEi, acum \u00ee\u021bi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 m-ai pierdut?\u201d \u2014 m-a \u00eentrebat fostul meu so\u021b, la 10 ani dup\u0103 ce m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise pentru una mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103. N-am r\u0103spuns. Mi-am scos telefonul \u0219i am deschis o fotografie. C\u00e2nd i-am \u00eentors ecranul spre el, z\u00e2mbetul i-a disp\u0103rut\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49Adrian continua s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 telefonul.<\/p>\n<p>Prima fotografie era f\u0103cut\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba unei case luminoase, cu o gr\u0103din\u0103 mare \u0219i copaci \u00eenal\u021bi \u00een spate.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E casa ta? \u00eentreb\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da. L\u00e2ng\u0103 Snagov.<\/p>\n<p>Ridic\u0103 privirea spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai cump\u0103rat-o singur\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>\u00centrebarea m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da, Adrian. Singur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am trecut la urm\u0103toarea fotografie.<\/p>\n<p>Eram pe o teras\u0103 din Lisabona, cu oceanul \u00een dep\u0103rtare.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi Roma.<\/p>\n<p>Praga.<\/p>\n<p>O fotografie f\u0103cut\u0103 pe un traseu de munte.<\/p>\n<p>Alta de la mare.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian derula acum singur, iar siguran\u021ba de pe chipul lui disp\u0103rea pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai c\u0103l\u0103torit mult.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Destul.<\/p>\n<p>Urm\u0103toarea fotografie era de la un eveniment al companiei. Eram pe scen\u0103, \u021bin\u00e2nd \u00een m\u00e2ini un premiu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce-i asta?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am fost promovat\u0103 acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani. Conduc o echip\u0103 de dou\u0103zeci \u0219i ceva de oameni.<\/p>\n<p>S-a uitat din nou la mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu?<\/p>\n<p>Am ridicat o spr\u00e2ncean\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i-a dat imediat seama cum sunase.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu asta voiam s\u0103 spun.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ba exact asta ai vrut s\u0103 spui.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cemi aminteam foarte bine cum \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 nu sunt suficient de ambi\u021bioas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 m\u0103 mul\u021bumesc cu pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 el probabil a\u0219 r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een acela\u0219i loc toat\u0103 via\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>Dar Adrian \u00eenc\u0103 nu v\u0103zuse fotografia pe care o c\u0103utam.<\/p>\n<p>Am luat telefonul \u0219i am derulat pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Uite.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen imagine eram eu, Andrei \u0219i Ioana, \u00eentr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 de var\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Andrei m\u0103 \u021binea de mijloc, iar Ioana, fiica lui, ne \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a pe am\u00e2ndoi.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian privi fotografia mai mult dec\u00e2t pe celelalte.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Cine sunt?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Andrei \u0219i Ioana.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Andrei este\u2026?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Partenerul meu.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0103cu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De c\u00e2t timp?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Aproape patru ani.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i fata?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Fiica lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Locuie\u0219te cu voi?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 O parte din timp. Are dou\u0103zeci de ani acum \u0219i este student\u0103. Dar da, suntem o familie.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-am luat telefonul \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian p\u0103rea c\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 ceva de spus.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Deci p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 \u021bi-ai g\u0103sit pe cineva.<\/p>\n<p>Acolo am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu pricepuse.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Adrian, nu pentru asta \u021bi-am ar\u0103tat fotografiile.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Atunci pentru ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 m-ai \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 regret.<\/p>\n<p>Am pus telefonul \u00een geant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Casa, c\u0103l\u0103toriile, serviciul, Andrei\u2026 toate au venit mai t\u00e2rziu. Dar cel mai important lucru s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u00eenaintea lor.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am \u00eencetat s\u0103 m\u0103 mai \u00eentreb dac\u0103 sunt suficient\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu r\u0103spunse.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Doisprezece ani m-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 cred c\u0103 eram prea banal\u0103, prea comod\u0103, prea pu\u021bin ambi\u021bioas\u0103. C\u0103 nu m\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103cam suficient de bine. C\u0103 nu eram destul de interesant\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd eram fericit\u0103, reu\u0219eai s\u0103 m\u0103 convingi c\u0103 fericirea mea era dovada c\u0103 m\u0103 mul\u021bumesc cu prea pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian \u00ee\u0219i cobor\u00ee privirea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu-mi amintesc s\u0103 fi fost chiar a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u00e2s scurt.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Normal c\u0103 nu. Tu erai cel care spunea lucrurile. Eu eram cea care trebuia s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 cu ele.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 de c\u00e2nd ne \u00eent\u00e2lniser\u0103m, nu mai avea nicio replic\u0103 preg\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dup\u0103 ce ai plecat, continuai s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u00een capul meu. C\u00e2nd cump\u0103ram o rochie, m\u0103 \u00eentrebam dac\u0103 \u021bi-ar fi pl\u0103cut. C\u00e2nd voiam s\u0103 plec undeva, auzeam vocea ta spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 arunc banii. C\u00e2nd am primit prima promovare, primul meu g\u00e2nd a fost c\u0103 probabil ai spune c\u0103 am avut noroc.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i dup\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dup\u0103 mi-am dat seama c\u0103 nu mai erai acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian se uit\u0103 \u00een jur, parc\u0103 jenat c\u0103 discu\u021bia ajunsese \u00eentr-un loc pe care nu-l anticipase.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 M\u0103 bucur pentru tine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Serios.<\/p>\n<p>Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi l-am \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu e\u0219ti bine?<\/p>\n<p>Ezit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A fost suficient.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Eu \u0219i Diana nu mai suntem \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Diana.<\/p>\n<p>Femeia pentru care m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian scoase un r\u00e2s f\u0103r\u0103 veselie.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu cred c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pare.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ba da. Nu trebuie s\u0103-mi doresc s\u0103 fii nefericit doar pentru c\u0103 m-ai r\u0103nit c\u00e2ndva.<\/p>\n<p>Se uit\u0103 atent la mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 M-a p\u0103r\u0103sit dup\u0103 cinci ani.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen\u021beleg.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tii ce mi-a spus?<\/p>\n<p>Am a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 sunt plictisitor.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 sunt mereu nemul\u021bumit. C\u0103 nimic nu-mi ajunge. C\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine sim\u021bea c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 demonstreze permanent ceva.<\/p>\n<p>Ironia era at\u00e2t de evident\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t niciunul dintre noi nu trebuia s-o explice.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian z\u00e2mbi amar.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Cam acelea\u0219i lucruri pe care \u021bi le spuneam eu \u021bie, nu?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Aproape.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Probabil te bucuri.<\/p>\n<p>L-am privit.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai sim\u021beam furia de alt\u0103dat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nici satisfac\u021bia pe care, cu zece ani \u00eenainte, mi-o imaginasem dac\u0103 via\u021ba avea s\u0103-i dea vreodat\u0103 o lec\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p>Nu sim\u021beam aproape nimic.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu, Adrian.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103, pentru a m\u0103 bucura de ceea ce \u021bi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, via\u021ba ta ar trebui s\u0103 mai aib\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103 pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103mase nemi\u0219cat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Asta a durut.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu am spus-o ca s\u0103 doar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i tocmai acesta era adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n<p>Cu ani \u00een urm\u0103 a\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 vad\u0103 fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 afle ce serviciu aveam, unde locuiam, cu cine eram.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 regret\u0435.<\/p>\n<p>Acum nu mai aveam nevoie de nimic din toate acestea.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonul meu vibr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Un mesaj de la Andrei:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eSuntem la cafenea. Ioana \u0219i-a cump\u0103rat jum\u0103tate de mall. Salveaz\u0103-m\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 plec.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian se uit\u0103 spre telefon.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Andrei?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-am luat pungile.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 A fost\u2026 ciudat s\u0103 te v\u0103d, spuse el.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p>Am f\u0103cut c\u00e2\u021biva pa\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Stai.<\/p>\n<p>M-am \u00eentors.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 nu plecam atunci\u2026 crezi c\u0103 am fi r\u0103mas \u00eempreun\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>M-am g\u00e2ndit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Probabil.<\/p>\n<p>Expresia lui se lumin\u0103 pentru o clip\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dar am continuat:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i cred c\u0103 asta ar fi fost cea mai trist\u0103 variant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 a\u0219 fi continuat s\u0103 cred c\u0103 femeia care eram l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine era singura femeie care puteam deveni.<\/p>\n<p>Nu r\u0103spunse.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai avut dreptate atunci \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103, Adrian.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Care?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dup\u0103 divor\u021b, via\u021ba mea chiar s-a schimbat complet.<\/p>\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Doar c\u0103 nu \u00een direc\u021bia pe care o prezisese\u0219i tu.<\/p>\n<p>Am plecat.<\/p>\n<p>La c\u00e2teva zeci de metri, \u00een fa\u021ba unei cafenele, Andrei m\u0103 a\u0219tepta \u00eempreun\u0103 cu Ioana.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen sf\u00e2r\u0219it! spuse el, lu\u00e2ndu-mi pungile din m\u00e2ini. Am fost abandonat cu un om care consider\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219ase perechi de pantofi reprezint\u0103 \u201estrictul necesar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Sunt reduceri! protest\u0103 Ioana.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Asta spune de dou\u0103 ore.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p>Andrei m\u0103 privi mai atent.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E\u0219ti bine?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Adrian r\u0103m\u0103sese \u00een acela\u0219i loc, singur \u00een mijlocul oamenilor care treceau gr\u0103bi\u021bi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i chiar eram.<\/p>\n<p>Ioana m\u0103 lu\u0103 de bra\u021b \u0219i \u00eencepu s\u0103-mi povesteasc\u0103 despre o rochie pe care trebuia neap\u0103rat s-o v\u0103d.<\/p>\n<p>Andrei mergea l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, \u00eenc\u0103 bomb\u0103nind despre num\u0103rul de pungi.<\/p>\n<p>Iar eu mi-am dat seama c\u0103 timp de ani \u00eentregi crezusem c\u0103 Adrian m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise pentru c\u0103 g\u0103sise o femeie mai bun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu.<\/p>\n<p>El plecase pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tia s\u0103 pre\u021buiasc\u0103 femeia pe care o avea.<\/p>\n<p>Iar eu nu pierdusem b\u0103rbatul vie\u021bii mele \u00een ziua divor\u021bului.<\/p>\n<p>Pierdusem un b\u0103rbat l\u00e2ng\u0103 care, \u00eencet, m\u0103 pierdeam pe mine \u00eens\u0103mi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i abia dup\u0103 ce el plecase avusesem loc s\u0103 m\u0103 reg\u0103sesc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii \ud83d\udc49Adrian continua s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 telefonul. Prima fotografie era f\u0103cut\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba unei case luminoase, cu o gr\u0103din\u0103 mare \u0219i copaci \u00eenal\u021bi \u00een spate. \u2014 E casa ta? \u00eentreb\u0103 el. \u2014 Da. L\u00e2ng\u0103 Snagov. Ridic\u0103 privirea spre mine. \u2014 Ai cump\u0103rat-o singur\u0103? \u00centrebarea m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc. \u2014 Da, Adrian. &#8230; <a title=\"\u201eEi, acum \u00ee\u021bi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 m-ai pierdut?\u201d \u2014 m-a \u00eentrebat fostul meu so\u021b, la 10 ani dup\u0103 ce m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sise pentru una mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103. N-am r\u0103spuns. Mi-am scos telefonul \u0219i am deschis o fotografie. 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