{"id":4015,"date":"2026-08-13T12:29:48","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T12:29:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4015"},"modified":"2026-08-13T12:29:48","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T12:29:48","slug":"apartamentul-meu-regulile-mele-nu-ti-convine-du-te-la-taticul-tau-mi-a-spus-sotul-lasandu-ma-cu-bebelusul-bolnav-ca-sa-i-pregatesc-cina-mamei-lui-n-am-facut-scandal-dar-seara-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4015","title":{"rendered":"\u201eApartamentul meu, regulile mele. Nu-\u021bi convine? Du-te la t\u0103ticul t\u0103u!\u201d, mi-a spus so\u021bul, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu bebelu\u0219ul bolnav ca s\u0103-i preg\u0103tesc cina mamei lui. N-am f\u0103cut scandal. Dar seara, c\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors cu ea \u0219i a deschis u\u0219a, a \u00eencremenit: nu mirosea a friptur\u0103, apartamentul era aproape gol\u2026 iar tata \u00eel a\u0219tepta \u00een\u0103untru cu un teanc gros de facturi."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tiiDan a r\u0103mas \u00een prag, cu cheia \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Privirea \u00eei alerga prin livingul aproape gol, de la urmele l\u0103sate de mobil\u0103 pe podea p\u00e2n\u0103 la cutiile a\u0219ezate l\u00e2ng\u0103 perete.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Unde sunt lucrurile mele?<\/p>\n<p>Tata a deschis calm dosarul.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ale tale? Hai s\u0103 vedem.<\/p>\n<p>A scos prima factur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Canapeaua: pl\u0103tit\u0103 de mine. Masa \u0219i cele \u0219ase scaune: tot eu. Televizorul, ma\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat, usc\u0103torul, covoarele\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 A\u021bi golit casa?! a izbucnit Dan.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Am luat bunurile pe care le-am cump\u0103rat pentru fiica mea \u0219i pentru nepotul meu \u0219i care puteau fi ridicate f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 atingem apartamentul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Doina p\u0103rea incapabil\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar unde m\u00e2nc\u0103m? Dan mi-a spus c\u0103 Irina preg\u0103te\u0219te cina.<\/p>\n<p>Am privit-o.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan mi-a spus c\u0103 apartamentul este al lui \u0219i c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu-mi convine, s\u0103 plec la tata.<\/p>\n<p>Am ridicat geanta lui Luca.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 A\u0219a am f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>Doina s-a \u00eentors spre fiul ei.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tu ai dat-o afar\u0103 cu copilul?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, nu e a\u0219a. Ea dramatizeaz\u0103 tot timpul.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am \u0219i mesajele, am spus.<\/p>\n<p>Dan s-a \u00eentors furios spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Irina, termin\u0103 circul. Pune lucrurile \u00eenapoi \u0219i discut\u0103m dup\u0103 ce pleac\u0103 mama.<\/p>\n<p>Tata a r\u00e2s scurt.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Cred c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 n-ai \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00eenchis dosarul.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Fiica mea nu mai locuie\u0219te aici.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103, Dan nu a avut o replic\u0103 imediat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>S-a uitat spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i unde te duci?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Acas\u0103 la tata, exact cum mi-ai recomandat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Cu Luca?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Evident.<\/p>\n<p>A f\u0103cut un pas spre mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu hot\u0103r\u0103\u0219ti tu singur\u0103 ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu copilul meu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nici tu.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-am scos telefonul.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Am vorbit deja cu un avocat. De acum \u00eenainte, tot ce \u021bine de Luca discut\u0103m civilizat \u0219i legal.<\/p>\n<p>Atitudinea lui s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ai vorbit cu un avocat?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Azi.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru o ceart\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat la el.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu plec din cauza unei certe, Dan. Plec din cauza felului \u00een care tr\u0103iesc de prea mult timp.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen \u00eenc\u0103pere s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p>Doina s-a a\u0219ezat pe una dintre cutii, de parc\u0103 picioarele n-o mai \u021bineau.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dar eu credeam c\u0103 vou\u0103 v\u0103 merge bine\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Am privit-o f\u0103r\u0103 furie.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 vedea\u021bi o cas\u0103 frumoas\u0103 \u0219i un fiu care v\u0103 spunea c\u0103 el pl\u0103te\u0219te tot.<\/p>\n<p>Tata a r\u0103sfoit din nou documentele.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Vrei s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u00e2t a pl\u0103tit b\u0103iatul t\u0103u din lucrurile cu care se l\u0103uda?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tat\u0103, las\u0103, am spus.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai aveam nevoie s\u0103-l umilesc.<\/p>\n<p>Dan f\u0103cuse asta singur.<\/p>\n<p>Am luat geanta copilului \u0219i m-am apropiat de p\u0103tu\u021b.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Plec\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>Dan mi-a prins privirea.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Irina, stai pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>Tonul lui era diferit.<\/p>\n<p>Mai jos.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Putem rezolva. M-am enervat. Am spus ni\u0219te prostii.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu ast\u0103zi ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 le spui.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Avem un copil.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Tocmai de aceea plec.<\/p>\n<p>Cuvintele l-au oprit.<\/p>\n<p>L-am luat pe Luca \u0219i l-am a\u0219ezat cu grij\u0103 \u00een c\u0103rucior.<\/p>\n<p>Dan s-a apropiat.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i eu ce fac acum?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat \u00een jur.<\/p>\n<p>Apartamentul pe care \u00eel numise de at\u00e2tea ori \u201eal lui\u201d \u00eei apar\u021binea \u00een continuare.<\/p>\n<p>Pere\u021bii erau ai lui.<\/p>\n<p>Parchetul era al lui.<\/p>\n<p>Camerele erau ale lui.<\/p>\n<p>Exact cum insistase.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ce vrei, Dan. E apartamentul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Tata \u0219i-a luat dosarul \u0219i ultimele dou\u0103 cutii au fost cobor\u00e2te.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd am ajuns la u\u0219\u0103, Doina m-a strigat:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Irina\u2026<\/p>\n<p>M-am \u00eentors.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103 \u00eei p\u0103rea r\u0103u pentru mine sau pentru ceea ce tocmai descoperise despre fiul ei.<\/p>\n<p>Dar nu mai conta.<\/p>\n<p>Am plecat.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen primele zile la tata am dormit mai mult dec\u00e2t dormisem \u00een luni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd Luca se trezea noaptea, tata ap\u0103rea uneori \u00een u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dormi tu. Stau eu cu el pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-mi d\u0103dea ordine.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-mi spunea c\u0103 sunt inutil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu m\u0103 \u00eentreba ce am f\u0103cut toat\u0103 ziua.<\/p>\n<p>Pur \u0219i simplu m\u0103 ajuta.<\/p>\n<p>Dan a \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi scrie din a doua zi.<\/p>\n<p>Mai \u00eent\u00e2i furios:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAdu lucrurile \u00eenapoi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Apoi amenin\u021b\u0103tor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNu po\u021bi s\u0103-mi iei copilul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile, mesajele s-au schimbat:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eHai s\u0103 vorbim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAm exagerat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201ePutem \u00eencepe din nou.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMi-e dor de voi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am citit mesajul \u0219i am \u00eenchis telefonul.<\/p>\n<p>Cu c\u00e2teva luni \u00eenainte, probabil c\u0103 m-a\u0219 fi \u00eentors.<\/p>\n<p>Acum \u0219tiam diferen\u021ba dintre a-\u021bi fi dor de cineva \u0219i a-l respecta.<\/p>\n<p>Am depus cererea de divor\u021b.<\/p>\n<p>Prin avocat am stabilit \u0219i tot ceea ce \u021binea de Luca, f\u0103r\u0103 amenin\u021b\u0103ri \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 jocurile pe care Dan \u00eencercase s\u0103 le fac\u0103 \u00een primele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centre timp, am \u00eenceput din nou s\u0103 lucrez.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00eenceput traduceam texte de acas\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore pe zi, c\u00e2t dormea Luca. Apoi am primit proiecte mai mari.<\/p>\n<p>Prima sum\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tigat\u0103 de mine dup\u0103 mult timp nu era impresionant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dar c\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut banii \u00een cont, am pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n<p>Nu pentru valoarea lor.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 erau ai mei.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 aproape un an, eu \u0219i Luca ne-am mutat \u00eentr-un apartament mic, luminos.<\/p>\n<p>Nu avea buc\u0103t\u0103rie scump\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Canapeaua nu era dintr-un catalog.<\/p>\n<p>Masa avea doar patru scaune.<\/p>\n<p>Dar \u00een prima sear\u0103 am pus cina pe ea \u0219i Luca, deja mai m\u0103ri\u0219or, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 loveasc\u0103 fericit cu linguri\u021ba \u00een t\u0103vi\u021ba lui.<\/p>\n<p>Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu mi-a spus c\u0103 masa nu era pus\u0103 cum trebuie.<\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu a verificat dac\u0103 podeaua str\u0103lucea.<\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu mi-a amintit cine \u201eaduce banii\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Tata venise s\u0103 ne ajute cu mutarea. \u00cenainte s\u0103 plece, s-a oprit \u00een u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E\u0219ti bine?<\/p>\n<p>M-am uitat la Luca, apoi \u00een jurul meu.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 E\u0219ti sigur\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Acum da.<\/p>\n<p>Mai t\u00e2rziu am aflat c\u0103 Dan \u00eenc\u0103 locuia \u00een apartamentul bunicii.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0219i cump\u0103rase din nou o parte din mobil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu m-am bucurat c\u0103 \u00eei fusese greu.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-mi doream r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n<p>Dar uneori m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam la propozi\u021bia aceea:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eApartamentul meu, regulile mele.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Avusese dreptate \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Apartamentul fusese al lui.<\/p>\n<p>Doar c\u0103 eu confundasem prea mult timp un apartament cu un c\u0103min.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen seara \u00een care am plecat cu Luca am \u00een\u021beles diferen\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>Un apartament poate apar\u021bine unui singur om pe o h\u00e2rtie.<\/p>\n<p>Un c\u0103min este locul \u00een care nimeni nu trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tige dreptul de a fi respectat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tiiDan a r\u0103mas \u00een prag, cu cheia \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. Privirea \u00eei alerga prin livingul aproape gol, de la urmele l\u0103sate de mobil\u0103 pe podea p\u00e2n\u0103 la cutiile a\u0219ezate l\u00e2ng\u0103 perete. \u2014 Unde sunt lucrurile mele? Tata a deschis calm dosarul. \u2014 Ale tale? Hai s\u0103 vedem. A scos prima &#8230; <a title=\"\u201eApartamentul meu, regulile mele. Nu-\u021bi convine? Du-te la t\u0103ticul t\u0103u!\u201d, mi-a spus so\u021bul, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu bebelu\u0219ul bolnav ca s\u0103-i preg\u0103tesc cina mamei lui. N-am f\u0103cut scandal. Dar seara, c\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors cu ea \u0219i a deschis u\u0219a, a \u00eencremenit: nu mirosea a friptur\u0103, apartamentul era aproape gol\u2026 iar tata \u00eel a\u0219tepta \u00een\u0103untru cu un teanc gros de facturi.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=4015\" aria-label=\"Read more about \u201eApartamentul meu, regulile mele. Nu-\u021bi convine? Du-te la t\u0103ticul t\u0103u!\u201d, mi-a spus so\u021bul, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu bebelu\u0219ul bolnav ca s\u0103-i preg\u0103tesc cina mamei lui. N-am f\u0103cut scandal. Dar seara, c\u00e2nd s-a \u00eentors cu ea \u0219i a deschis u\u0219a, a \u00eencremenit: nu mirosea a friptur\u0103, apartamentul era aproape gol\u2026 iar tata \u00eel a\u0219tepta \u00een\u0103untru cu un teanc gros de facturi.\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4015","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4015\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}