{"id":3458,"date":"2026-08-07T07:20:42","date_gmt":"2026-08-07T07:20:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=3458"},"modified":"2026-08-07T07:20:43","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T07:20:43","slug":"in-fiecare-joi-prietenul-meu-din-copilarie-venea-s-o-ia-pe-mama-ramasa-vaduva-fara-sa-mi-spuna-niciodata-unde-merg-cand-am-incercat-sa-aflu-adevarul-am-descoperit-ca-tinea-o-promisiune-facuta-tat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=3458","title":{"rendered":"\u00cen fiecare joi, prietenul meu din copil\u0103rie venea s-o ia pe mama, r\u0103mas\u0103 v\u0103duv\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 niciodat\u0103 unde merg. C\u00e2nd am \u00eencercat s\u0103 aflu adev\u0103rul, am descoperit c\u0103 \u021binea o promisiune f\u0103cut\u0103 tat\u0103lui meu \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul a r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva clipe \u00een t\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Privea spre casa mamei, unde lumina tocmai se aprinsese \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi \u0219i-a trecut m\u00e2na peste volan \u0219i a spus \u00eencet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Cu aproximativ o lun\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103, tat\u0103l t\u0103u m-a chemat la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu am spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Mi-a zis c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute cu ni\u0219te sc\u00e2nduri pentru atelier. C\u00e2nd am ajuns, sc\u00e2ndurile erau acolo\u2026 dar mi-am dat seama imediat c\u0103 nu pentru asta m\u0103 chemase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A z\u00e2mbit amar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ar\u0103ta bine, glumea, f\u0103cea cafea\u2026 dar \u00een ochii lui se vedea c\u0103 \u0219tia adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge inima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Mi-a spus c\u0103 medicii nu-i mai d\u0103deau prea mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Apoi m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 sunt dispus s\u0103-i fac o promisiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ce promisiune?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Mi-a spus a\u0219a\u2026 \u201ePaul, pe Maria am scos-o la primul dans c\u00e2nd avea \u0219aptesprezece ani. De atunci, \u00een fiecare joi, indiferent c\u00e2t eram de ocupa\u021bi, ie\u0219eam m\u0103car o or\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103. Uneori mergeam la restaurant, alteori doar ne plimbam prin parc \u0219i dansam c\u00e2nd auzeam muzic\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi ea r\u0103m\u00e2ne singur\u0103\u2026 promite-mi c\u0103 n-o vei l\u0103sa s\u0103 uite cum e s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am sim\u021bit c\u0103-mi dau lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu \u0219tiusem niciodat\u0103 de promisiunea aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul continu\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 I-am promis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u0218i dup\u0103 ce tata a murit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00cen primele luni n-am avut curaj. Mama ta nu voia s\u0103 vad\u0103 pe nimeni. C\u00e2nd treceam pe la ea, g\u0103seam perdelele trase \u0219i televizorul \u00eenchis. St\u0103tea ore \u00eentregi \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, uit\u00e2ndu-se pe geam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenchis ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imaginea aceea \u00eemi era prea cunoscut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00centr-o joi am sunat la u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i i-am spus doar at\u00e2t: \u201eHaide\u021bi s\u0103 ie\u0219im pu\u021bin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul z\u00e2mbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 M-a refuzat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am venit \u0219i joia urm\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-a refuzat din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A treia joi nici m\u0103car nu mi-a deschis u\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar eu am continuat s\u0103 vin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 N-ai renun\u021bat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cl\u0103tin\u0103 din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00cei f\u0103cusem o promisiune tat\u0103lui t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o joi, dup\u0103 aproape dou\u0103 luni, mama ta a ie\u0219it \u00een prag \u0219i mi-a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Dac\u0103 vin cu tine, promite-mi c\u0103 nu m\u0103 \u00eentrebi de ce pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u0218i ce i-ai r\u0103spuns?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 I-am spus c\u0103 poate pl\u00e2nge c\u00e2t vrea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen seara aceea au mers \u00eentr-un parc din centrul ora\u0219ului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O orchestr\u0103 de pensionari c\u00e2nta melodii vechi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Mama ta s-a oprit \u0219i a spus c\u0103 n-a mai dansat de c\u00e2nd l-a pierdut pe tat\u0103l t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Am \u00eentrebat-o dac\u0103 \u00eemi acord\u0103 un singur dans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi-a spus c\u0103 a uitat to\u021bi pa\u0219ii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 primele secunde, \u00eei \u0219tia din nou pe to\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul z\u00e2mbea \u00een timp ce \u00ee\u0219i amintea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul melodiei pl\u00e2ngea \u0219i r\u00e2dea \u00een acela\u0219i timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103, uneori, oamenii nu au nevoie s\u0103 le rezolvi durerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au nevoie doar s\u0103 nu fie singuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Joia urm\u0103toare mama m-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ai program disear\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Atunci \u00eembrac\u0103-te frumos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am r\u0103mas surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 ast\u0103zi vii cu noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am ajuns \u00een parc pu\u021bin \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 muzica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era plin de oameni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cupluri \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 dansau z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Al\u021bii st\u0103teau pe b\u0103nci \u0219i aplaudau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama p\u0103rea emo\u021bionat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul s-a apropiat de ea \u0219i i-a \u00eentins m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00cemi acorda\u021bi acest dans, doamn\u0103 Maria?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ea a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Dup\u0103 at\u00e2tea joi, \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 De fiecare dat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul o privi cu respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 dansul nu are valoare dac\u0103 nu este oferit din inim\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama \u0219i-a pus m\u00e2na \u00een palma lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen clipa \u00een care orchestra a \u00eenceput s\u0103 c\u00e2nte, am \u00een\u021beles de ce nu voise s\u0103 vin mai devreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu era un secret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era un loc \u00een care \u00ee\u0219i vindeca sufletul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Priveam cum se \u00eenv\u00e2rtea u\u0219or pe muzic\u0103 \u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 trei ani, nu mai vedeam o femeie r\u0103mas\u0103 v\u0103duv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O vedeam pe mama mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen timp ce dansau, orchestra a \u00eenceput melodia pe care p\u0103rin\u021bii mei o ascultau la fiecare aniversare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama s-a oprit o clip\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A \u00eenchis ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lacrimile i-au alunecat pe obraji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul n-a spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u0103mas acolo, \u021bin\u00e2nd-o de m\u00e2n\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ea a z\u00e2mbit din nou \u0219i a f\u0103cut primul pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama m-a observat \u0219i mi-a f\u0103cut semn s\u0103 m\u0103 apropii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Hai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi-a \u00eentins m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Tat\u0103l t\u0103u spunea mereu c\u0103 dansul e mai frumos c\u00e2nd cei pe care \u00eei iube\u0219ti sunt aproape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am intrat \u00eentre ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen seara aceea am dansat to\u021bi trei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 de la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntarea tat\u0103lui meu, nu am mai sim\u021bit doar lipsa lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I-am sim\u021bit \u0219i prezen\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De atunci, joia a devenit din nou ziua preferat\u0103 a familiei noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori dans\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alteori doar st\u0103m pe o banc\u0103 \u0219i ascult\u0103m muzica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu lipsim aproape niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cenainte s\u0103 plec\u0103m acas\u0103, mama prive\u0219te mereu spre cer \u0219i z\u00e2mbe\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103 am \u00eentrebat-o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 La ce te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi-a str\u00e2ns m\u00e2na \u0219i mi-a r\u0103spuns \u00eencet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 La tat\u0103l t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cred c\u0103, de acolo de sus, \u0219tie c\u0103 \u0219i-a \u021binut promisiunea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu, mam\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul doar a ajutat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Promisiunea a fost \u021binut\u0103 de omul care te-a iubit at\u00e2t de mult, \u00eenc\u00e2t s-a g\u00e2ndit la fericirea ta chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 ce nu avea s\u0103 mai fie l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama \u0219i-a \u0219ters o lacrim\u0103 \u0219i a privit din nou spre ringul de dans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Atunci s\u0103 nu lipsim joia viitoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i n-am lipsit niciuna de atunci.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Paul a r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva clipe \u00een t\u0103cere. Privea spre casa mamei, unde lumina tocmai se aprinsese \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Apoi \u0219i-a trecut m\u00e2na peste volan \u0219i a spus \u00eencet: \u2014 Cu aproximativ o lun\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103, tat\u0103l t\u0103u m-a chemat la el. Nu am spus nimic. \u2014 Mi-a zis c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute cu &#8230; <a title=\"\u00cen fiecare joi, prietenul meu din copil\u0103rie venea s-o ia pe mama, r\u0103mas\u0103 v\u0103duv\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 niciodat\u0103 unde merg. C\u00e2nd am \u00eencercat s\u0103 aflu adev\u0103rul, am descoperit c\u0103 \u021binea o promisiune f\u0103cut\u0103 tat\u0103lui meu \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=3458\" aria-label=\"Read more about \u00cen fiecare joi, prietenul meu din copil\u0103rie venea s-o ia pe mama, r\u0103mas\u0103 v\u0103duv\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 niciodat\u0103 unde merg. C\u00e2nd am \u00eencercat s\u0103 aflu adev\u0103rul, am descoperit c\u0103 \u021binea o promisiune f\u0103cut\u0103 tat\u0103lui meu \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103.\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3458","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3458"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3458\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3459,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3458\/revisions\/3459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}