{"id":1020,"date":"2026-07-16T07:01:24","date_gmt":"2026-07-16T07:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=1020"},"modified":"2026-07-16T07:01:25","modified_gmt":"2026-07-16T07:01:25","slug":"dupa-un-divort-si-zece-ani-de-singuratate-credeam-ca-in-sfarsit-mi-am-gasit-omul-potrivit-patru-ani-am-trait-in-armonie-pana-cand-un-singur-obicei-al-lui-a-distrus-tot-ce-construisem-impreu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=1020","title":{"rendered":"Dup\u0103 un divor\u021b \u0219i zece ani de singur\u0103tate, credeam c\u0103 \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it mi-am g\u0103sit omul potrivit. Patru ani am tr\u0103it \u00een armonie\u2026 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd un singur obicei al lui a distrus tot ce construisem \u00eempreun\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Primele semne au ap\u0103rut at\u00e2t de discret, \u00eenc\u00e2t nici nu le-am luat \u00een seam\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Credeam c\u0103 este menopauza. Bufeuri, nop\u021bi nedormite, nervi \u00eentin\u0219i ca o coard\u0103. Uneori m\u0103 enervam din nimic \u0219i apoi m\u0103 sim\u021beam vinovat\u0103. Toma \u00eemi spunea mereu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Las\u0103, trece \u0219i asta. Suntem echip\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i chiar \u00eel credeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numai c\u0103, \u00eencet-\u00eencet, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 observ ceva ce p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci nu m\u0103 deranjase deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obiceiul lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103, imediat ce deschidea ochii, lua telefonul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu-mi spunea \u201ebun\u0103 diminea\u021ba\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu m\u0103 \u00eentreba dac\u0103 dormisem bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu deschidea perdelele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai \u00eent\u00e2i verifica telefonul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mesaje. \u0218tiri. Filmule\u021be. Grupuri. Comentarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zece minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori dou\u0103zeci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi mergea \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i continua s\u0103 deruleze ecranul \u00een timp ce \u00ee\u0219i bea cafeaua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seara era la fel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne a\u0219ezam pe canapea s\u0103 vedem un film, iar dup\u0103 zece minute \u00eel vedeam luminat de ecranul telefonului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ascult, ascult\u2026 spunea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ridice ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu asculta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La \u00eenceput am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Cred c\u0103, dac\u0103 ar lua foc casa, ai c\u0103uta pe internet cum se stinge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u00e2s \u0219i el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Exagerezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numai c\u0103, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni, am realizat ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu telefonul m\u0103 durea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci faptul c\u0103 \u00eencetasem s\u0103 mai exist atunci c\u00e2nd ap\u0103rea el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu vorbeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Telefonul r\u0103spundea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu Toma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o sear\u0103 g\u0103tisem lasagna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Re\u021beta aceea complicat\u0103 pe care o f\u0103ceam doar la ocazii speciale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am pus masa, am aprins o lum\u00e2nare \u0219i i-am spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Hai s\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Vin imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eImediat\u201d a \u00eensemnat dou\u0103zeci \u0219i cinci de minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd a intrat \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, m\u00e2ncarea era rece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? l-am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Am v\u0103zut un videoclip interesant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un videoclip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu st\u0103tusem singur\u0103 la mas\u0103, privind lum\u00e2narea care se topea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen clipa aceea am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu m\u0103 lupt cu o alt\u0103 femeie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu cu serviciul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu cu prietenii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci cu un ecran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i pierdeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Menopauza m\u0103 f\u0103cuse mai sensibil\u0103, e adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu inventase singur\u0103tatea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ea doar o f\u0103cuse imposibil de ignorat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 i-am luat telefonul \u00eenainte s\u0103 apuce el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L-am pus \u00een sertar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ast\u0103zi bem cafeaua \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-a privit surprins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ce faci?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00cencerc s\u0103-mi recuperez b\u0103rbatul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar dup\u0103 nici dou\u0103 minute se foia pe scaun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u0219i b\u0103tea degetele \u00een mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Privea spre sertar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci am \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu era doar un obicei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era o dependen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seara am vorbit pentru prima dat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Toma, nu telefonul m\u0103 sup\u0103r\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Atunci ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Faptul c\u0103 sunt pe locul doi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu e adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ba da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu zgomotos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu teatral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pur \u0219i simplu curgeau lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Eu am cincizeci \u0219i cinci de ani, Toma. Nu mai vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 lupt pentru aten\u021bia omului de l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine. Am f\u0103cut asta toat\u0103 tinere\u021bea. Credeam c\u0103 acum a venit vremea lini\u0219tii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u0103mas cu ochii \u00een podea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi a spus \u00eencet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nici nu mi-am dat seama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Tocmai asta doare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A doua zi, c\u00e2nd m-am trezit, telefonul lui nu mai era pe noptier\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Era \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cenchis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00e2ng\u0103 el era o can\u0103 cu cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Regul\u0103 nou\u0103, spuse z\u00e2mbind. F\u0103r\u0103 telefoane la mas\u0103. F\u0103r\u0103 telefoane \u00een dormitor. \u0218i \u00een fiecare sear\u0103 ie\u0219im la o plimbare de jum\u0103tate de or\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Crezi c\u0103 o s\u0103 reu\u0219e\u0219ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Dar vreau s\u0103 \u00eencerc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i a \u00eencercat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu i-a ie\u0219it din prima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De multe ori \u00eel vedeam c\u0103 \u00eentinde m\u00e2na dup\u0103 telefon \u0219i apoi se oprea singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alteori \u00eel uitam eu pe mas\u0103, iar el mi-l \u00eempingea z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Regulile sunt pentru am\u00e2ndoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ast\u0103zi au trecut aproape doi ani de atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Menopauza n-a fost sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A fost \u00eenceputul sincerit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103, dup\u0103 cincizeci de ani, nu mai ai timp s\u0103 taci doar ca s\u0103 p\u0103strezi lini\u0219tea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar Toma a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 cea mai important\u0103 notificare din via\u021ba lui nu venea de pe telefon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci de la femeia care \u00eei spunea \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bun\u0103 diminea\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i care voia doar ca el s\u0103 ridice privirea \u0219i s\u0103-i r\u0103spund\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Primele semne au ap\u0103rut at\u00e2t de discret, \u00eenc\u00e2t nici nu le-am luat \u00een seam\u0103. Credeam c\u0103 este menopauza. Bufeuri, nop\u021bi nedormite, nervi \u00eentin\u0219i ca o coard\u0103. Uneori m\u0103 enervam din nimic \u0219i apoi m\u0103 sim\u021beam vinovat\u0103. Toma \u00eemi spunea mereu: \u2014 Las\u0103, trece \u0219i asta. Suntem echip\u0103. \u0218i chiar \u00eel credeam. Numai c\u0103, \u00eencet-\u00eencet, am &#8230; <a title=\"Dup\u0103 un divor\u021b \u0219i zece ani de singur\u0103tate, credeam c\u0103 \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it mi-am g\u0103sit omul potrivit. Patru ani am tr\u0103it \u00een armonie\u2026 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd un singur obicei al lui a distrus tot ce construisem \u00eempreun\u0103\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/?p=1020\" aria-label=\"Read more about Dup\u0103 un divor\u021b \u0219i zece ani de singur\u0103tate, credeam c\u0103 \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it mi-am g\u0103sit omul potrivit. Patru ani am tr\u0103it \u00een armonie\u2026 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd un singur obicei al lui a distrus tot ce construisem \u00eempreun\u0103\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1020"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1021,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1020\/revisions\/1021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stiri-faine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}